* fix device id issue for xpu eager

xpu device id is not correctly set in eager mode, thus vars are on dev0 unless
XPUDeviceGurad is called, leading to this error message for all node rank != 0:
"NotImplementedError: (Unimplemented) Place Place(xpu:0) is not supported."

* fix typo

* fix pybind error

* refactor: simplify send, recv interfaces

* refactor: rm send_partial, recv_partial, all_gather_partial

* XPU support eager mode

* add unittest for XPU eager mode

* minor bugfix

* minor bugfix, test=kunlun

* correct copyright info

* 1. remove unsed vars/funcs
2. ProcessGroupBKCL inherit from ProcessGroupStream

* bugfix for fp16 in eager mode multi-card, test=kunlun

* rebase & fix a few issues

* use new processgroup interface, test=kunlun

* fix compile issue, test=kunlun

* refactor: send, recv, send_partial, recv_partial

* refactor: rm useless const ref

* fix no sync bugs

* update

* update task chain

fix: update wait chain

feat: add `GetDeviceContext` for gloo

* fix oom

* fix dev

* update

* update
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* [CustomDevice] add custom ccl 2/2

* update

* update

* update launch

* fix conflict

* new pg apis

* add docs of new apis

* update

* fix coverage

* update

* fix bug

* fix reduce scatter

* fix api

* update
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* fix bugs

* update

* update

* update

* code style

* code style check

* refactor reducer

* modify cmakelists

* solve conflicts

* rename group and update process_group

* fix bugs of ProcessGroupNCCL

* modify for CIs

* refactoring reducer

* add pg_hccl

* add pg_gloo

* add reducer

* add processgroup_nccl