* update dygraph collective

fix ut

* remove debug log

* add gloo gather

* add gloo_tools

* fix CI bug

* use gloo gather

* remove redundant code

* fix process_group_gloo.py

* rename send_recv

* fix conflict

* fix conflict

* fix codestyle

* fix CI bug

* add PADDLE_ENFORCE_NE

* gather with doc

* resolve comment

* polish

* polish

* code style

* polish doc

* add_test

* polish

* polish

* add test check

* add test check

* polish

* polish

* polish

* polish

* fix_time_out

* polish

* fix timeout

* fix_timeout

* polish

* polish

* polish

* polish

* polish

Co-authored-by: Nzhangxiaoci <zhangxiaoci@baidu.com>

* clear ProcessGroupCustom manually

* fix bug

* fix bug

* move destroy ProcessGroup to ProcessGroupIdMap

* enable destroy to all device

* remove unused comments

* change to internal api

* Update process_group.cc

* Update process_group.cc

* comm_context and static init

* refactor: move to phi/core/distributed

* refactor: avoid mutable_data usage

* fix: windows sock

* fix: device without nccl
Co-authored-by: Wen Sun <syl1887415157@126.com>

* refactor: use base class

* fix: incorrect deps

* fix: add missing header

* refactor: update class structures

* fix: bkcl typo

* fix: remove redundant def

* revert concat and change concat to stack

* let stack kernel support int8, uint8 and bool type

* refactor: replace Collective & PointToPoint with NCCLEnv

* refactor: rename to RunFnInNCCLEnv

* refactor: pass std::function by value

* fix device id issue for xpu eager

xpu device id is not correctly set in eager mode, thus vars are on dev0 unless
XPUDeviceGurad is called, leading to this error message for all node rank != 0:
"NotImplementedError: (Unimplemented) Place Place(xpu:0) is not supported."

* fix typo

* fix pybind error

* refactor: simplify send, recv interfaces

* refactor: rm send_partial, recv_partial, all_gather_partial

* XPU support eager mode

* add unittest for XPU eager mode

* minor bugfix

* minor bugfix, test=kunlun

* correct copyright info

* 1. remove unsed vars/funcs
2. ProcessGroupBKCL inherit from ProcessGroupStream

* bugfix for fp16 in eager mode multi-card, test=kunlun

* rebase & fix a few issues

* use new processgroup interface, test=kunlun

* fix compile issue, test=kunlun

* refactor: send, recv, send_partial, recv_partial

* refactor: rm useless const ref

* fix no sync bugs

* update

* update task chain

fix: update wait chain

feat: add `GetDeviceContext` for gloo

* fix oom

* fix dev

* update

* update
Co-authored-by: NLiYuRio <liyuruijx@163.com>
Co-authored-by: NForFishes <2282912238@qq.com>

* [CustomDevice] add custom ccl 2/2

* update

* update

* update launch

* fix conflict

* new pg apis

* add docs of new apis

* update

* fix coverage

* update

* fix bug

* fix reduce scatter

* fix api

* update
Co-authored-by: NForFishes <2282912238@qq.com>

* fix bugs

* update

* update

* update

* code style

* code style check