* [NPU] reshape x,y,out node in elementwise ops

add gemm + relu6/leakyrelu fusion

- enhance interp InferShape

* Support bitman backend

[LITE][NPU] Add instance_norm op bridge and unit test, refine the registration of op bridges (#2747)

* [NPU] enhance unittest for shuffle_channel, unsqueeze, pool

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X86 and cuda compile simutaneously cmake ..  -DCMAKE_BUILD_TYPE=RelWithDebInfo  -DWITH_MKL=ON           -DLITE_WITH_CUDA=ON           -DWITH_MKLDNN=OFF           -DLITE_WITH_X86=ON           -DLITE_WITH_PROFILE=OFF          -DWITH_LITE=OFF           -DLITE_WITH_LIGHT_WEIGHT_FRAMEWORK=OFF           -DWITH_PYTHON=OFF           -DWITH_TESTING=ON           -DLITE_WITH_ARM=OFF           -DLITE_ON_TINY_PUBLISH=OFF           -DCUDNN_ROOT=/usr/local/cudnn/           -DLITE_BUILD_EXTRA=ON (#2708)

x86 and cuda compile simutaneously

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* Fix the compiling error which occurs when specify the ddk_root path and build for huawei NPU.

* Refine the registration of op bridges and make it similar to the registration of op and kernel.

* Refine the interfaces of the graph and node for op bridges, and support creating constant and data node automatically according to the attribute 'persistable' of the target tensor.

* Add the unit test of the scale and softmax op bridge for NPU.

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* fix op inputs and outputs type, test=develop

* Remove GEMM padding in fc_compute.
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* Write a common ParallelFor function to run the for loop in parallel.

* Add the codes of padding GEMM back in fc.

* Refine the code of fc when padding_weight is false to avoid the definition of temporary Tensor.

* Refine the unit test of fc and add testing case of padding and parallel.
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* Enable more test cases in common fc unittest, including padding and parallel for x86 target.

* Remove the fc test under kernels/x86.
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* Disable relu in test of fc for non-x86 target.
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* Change the eps of arm.
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* Support multiple types for XPU and NPU op bridges

* Add lookup_table, gather, slice, stack and scale op bridges for supporting BERT

* Fix the definition of lookup_table kernel for X86

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* [XPU] elementwise_add unit test

* [XPU] softmax unit test

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* [XPU] add transpose bridge and unit test

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* Support Mask RCNN2 (#2588)

[LITE][NPU][XPU] Refine subgraph pass, and support NPU/XPU model generation at execution time (#2576)

* add arm split lod tensor, test=develop

* add arm merge lod tensor, test=develop

* update split merge lod tensor, test=develop

* add reduce_prob op, test=develop

* support mask_rcnn succeed, test=develop

* fill_constant can support shape is tensor or tensorlist

align the lite nearest， bilinear op to fluid on arm and cuda

* fix error for AxesTensorList in unsqueeze op