refactor npu device manager (#31154)

* [NPU] Support executor with NPU

* Fix code according to reviews

* Fix code

* Add unittest for sub op npu

support parsing ascend rank table file

[Feature] Build parser to support distributed training

cleanup test_ascend_group.py

Add startup bash files of test_ascend_group

Add Hccl program group

Pass device_ids info from launch to trainer

Build praser for Hcom* operators

Add distribution supported

* test=develop, fix fleet.metrics(mse, rmse, mae)

* add auc into 'all' list

* alias acc, expose to users

* update sample code

* test=develop, add distributed_infer

As the title

* skip quantizing ops in cpu inference, test=develop

As the title

Set expected place in child thread for dataloader to avoid costing cuda memory on other card (#30338)

* set expected place in child thread for dataloader

* set device id when set tensor from numpy

* revert tensor_py change

* add compile guard

* fix ci

* fix bug

* optimize memcpy perf for kunlun

* remove useless unitest for kunlun mean

* minor

* Implemented AddQuantDequantPass in imperative quantization.

* Supported LeakyReLU Quantization

* For meeting coverage rate.

* Changed the file name of test of AddQuantDequant

* Implemented more Quantized NoWeightLayers.

* Fix the loss cannot align problem between static and dynamic model quantization, add swish as supported quantized layer in imperative quantization.

* remove noweight_list

* support 2.0 API such as Pool2D and ReLu

* upgrade oneDNN version to 2.0 master branch

* - Added workarounds for new lib onednn change

* fix regex
Co-authored-by: NJacek Czaja <jacek.czaja@intel.com>

* add sparse embedding & load vars for 2.0

Change-Id: I36b59ed5f015189dc9d9d2e34a9357722d369f1b

* fix hdfs gloo

Change-Id: Ia84d579053720ad804183e54c9a04b4f031c79c6

* fix gloo hdfs

Change-Id: I5ab982fd483cddc10adcdef0b8aa83aca976cb9e

* move loadvar/sparse embedding from incubute to static

Change-Id: I57081d3545ad2efab78c72420d2162c0eacaf3a0

* disable test_pipeline

* fix error

* fix bug of using ignore_index and reduction,test=develop

* fix bug of celoss when using ignore_index and reduction, test=develop

* improve performance when ignore_index=-100, test=develop

* add test in test_cross_entropy_loss.py for coverage rate, test=develop

* rm comment in test_cross_entropy_loss.py, test=develop

* del  hard code of "float64" in python/paddle/nn/functional/loss.py, test=develop

* change mask to a more simplified implementation, test=develop

* del comment in python/paddle/nn/functional/loss.py, test=develop

* del hard code and change mask to a more simplified implementation, test=develop

* change mask to a more simplified implementation, test=develop

* change mask to a more simplified implementation, test=develop

* fix elugradgrad test fail and error message opt

* fix unitest,test=develop

* Update prroi_pool_op.h

fix error message

* opt message,test=develop

* fix ci fail,test=develop

* Fix the accuracy problem of allclose op when using float64 data type in static mode.

* Format the code style.

Support vector<double> as type of op attribute and op set_value suppport vector<double> as value (#30126)

* type promotion for grad

* add type promotion for div op