[XPU] add multi_encoder_xpu_slice_fuse_pass, generate_sequence_xpu_fuse_pass, generate_sequence_xpu kernel (#50570)

* support xpu multi-card infer

* add ut

* clean code

* clean code

* fix

* fix

* fix

* fix

* [XPU] update xccl to 1.0.8

* update xdnn. add uint8 for concat and split.

* update xdnn to 20230215.

* [XPU] add group_norm kernel

* update

* add xpu sin, cos, randint, linspace kernels

* update

* update

* move profiler

* add file

* fix mac compile bugs

* fix ci bugs

* fix mac bugs

* fix ci bugs

* fix compile bugs

* perfect code according comment

* [CUSTOM]custom device add black_list

* change log level

* fix some issues

fix X

remove TensorCopy

codestyle

add fluid memory header

fix symbol

fix cmake

fix cmake

fix context

fix header

fix place

fix context

fix context

fix context

fix code

fix custom context

fix custom context

fix copy

fix data_transform

fix style

remove changes of custom

fix scalar

* add xpu adagrad and where_grad kernels, test=kunlun

* add xpu pool3d kernels, test=kunlun

d_bias are nullptr. Modify the code style of full_kernel.cc. Add new data
type for concat, elementwise_add, gather, scale, scatter ops. test=kunlun

* rm gradient_accumulator in phi

* update

* replace matmul with matmul_v2 in fuse passes

* Remove fusion logic from matmul

* removing fusion methods

* add proper name

* adjust namespaces

* clean attrs in python tests

* delete checkpoint and restore matmul version

* remove unused code

* matmul and reshape/transpose fuses migrated

* split MatmulOneDNN headers

* fuse activation and eltwise_add

* add fuse_activation

* matmul_transpose_reshape/reshape_transpose_matmul

* matmul + elementwise_add (fused)

* activation temporary modifciation

* merge newest develop

* remove depedency from other PR

* revert pbtxt

* remove placeholders from matmul_v2

* add description in OPMaker

* remove matmul_v2_op.h and all depedencies

* remove dims changing in base op

* add possibility to fuse already fused_matmul

* restart broken CI

* Empty-Commit

* revert matmul_utils.h

* codestyle

* adjust imports

* add pbtxt file

* 100% matmul unit tests coverage

* trigger CI with minimal changes to develop

* adjust changes to develop

* add fused_matmul op

* inherit base ops

* add "v2"

* move OPMaker

* Gradually add fused_matmul files

* second batch of fused_matmul changes

* split infershapes of matmul_v2 and fused_matmul

* inherit fused_matmul from matmul_v2

* Update paddle/phi/backends/onednn/onednn_reuse.h
Co-authored-by: NTomasz Socha <tomasz.socha@intel.com>

* Update paddle/phi/kernels/fusion/onednn/fused_matmul_kernel.cc
Co-authored-by: NTomasz Socha <tomasz.socha@intel.com>

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Co-authored-by: NTomasz Socha <tomasz.socha@intel.com>

* [CustomDevice] add custom device api

* update

* update

* test=document_fix

* update

* update

* add  examples

* Support stream priority for standalone executor

* Fix compile error

* Fix compile error

* Fix compile error

* Fix compile error

* Fix compile error

* [KUNLUN] add op: maxpool_with_index

* use DeviceContext::Alloc() instead of DenseTensor::mutable_data()

* fix file format

* solve clip unittest failure

* minor fix

* Revert "solve clip unittest failure" since the issue is fixed
in #49535

This reverts commit 1127adc66e79afe35ac3c00bb34e6aaa7cd7d78b.

* align with xdnn on the definition of mask in max_pool_with_index

* minor

* extract fuse pass logic to header file

* adjust namespaces

* Update paddle/fluid/framework/ir/mkldnn/activation_onednn_fuse_pass.h

update date
Co-authored-by: NTomasz Socha <tomasz.socha@intel.com>

* add inline remove static
Co-authored-by: NTomasz Socha <tomasz.socha@intel.com>

* add reduce_sum_int64 and reduce_sum_int8 xpu kernels

* [PHI] add clip grad kernel with support type float32 and int32

* [PHI unittest] add clip_grad unit test

* adapt code to clang-format

* update xpu api output with clip_grad api

* remove int8 support of reduce_sum xpu kernel since it can not pass unit tests

* adapt license date, add code for XPUDataType convertion

* add int8 support of reduce_sum

* add reduce_sum unit tests for dtype int64, int8, and add more test cases

* update license date

* remove buggy bitwise and, or and xor xpu kernels, refine bitwise not xpu kernel

* change license date

* revert to use default XPU stream for computing

XPUContext now has a null stream by default. If you want to use a separate stream
 (e.g. in async collective communication), you should create a dedicated XPUContext
and invoke its XPUContext::CreateStream()

* minor

* clear ProcessGroupCustom manually

* fix bug

* fix bug

* move destroy ProcessGroup to ProcessGroupIdMap

* enable destroy to all device

* remove unused comments

* change to internal api

* Update process_group.cc

* Update process_group.cc

* kunlun add support for c_concat and c_split

* replace mutable_data() and ShareDataWith()

* fix xpu unittest issue: zero_dim_tensor

* deal with leftout issue introduced by #49470

xpu2_op_list.cc. test=kunlun

* rename kernel

* delete sig

* modify code according comment

* fix ci bugs

* add stack grad kernel optimization

* add basic optimization kernel for stack_grad_kernel

* optimization of stack_grad_kernel for last dim stack and change code format with pre-commit