[XPU] add multi_encoder_xpu_slice_fuse_pass, generate_sequence_xpu_fuse_pass, generate_sequence_xpu kernel (#50570)

* 修改英文注释synchronize

* 修改英文注释synchronize;test=document_fix

* test=document_fix

* test=document_fix

* test=document_fix

* 修改hfftn的注释错误;test=document_fix

* test=document_fix

* Consider kernel argument def for data device transform in standalone executor

* Fix ALL_BACKEND errors

* Fix CI errors

* [RM FLUID] rm fluid_pslib_init

* [RM FLUID] for ci

* [RM FLUID] for ci

* add cinn_git_tag param

* fix format error

* [Dy2St]Remove PE logic in @to_static

* fix typo

* fix infer_program

* fix typo

* fix op_size

* add approve rules

* add attr

* Add matmul_v2 to the quantization process and adjust Ernie model test

* Correct cpu_quantize_pass test

* Move op to fuse transformation to placement pass

* Correct test

* fix py::array_t calling bug

* polish test_phi_tensor

* stop fix inference bug in this PR

* polish unittest

* change int->int32_t

* fix unittest

* fix compile error

* modify cmake

* remove redundancy codes

* fix selectedRow unittest

* fix cmake relay

* declare kernel

* [dy2static-bugfix] fix backward gradient aggregation bugs
1. Yolov3 and Yolov5 all face the same problem.

* remove set_device

* code review fix

* New onednn test

* checkopoint

* added new test, fixed issue with onednn bias

* fix bias check

* remove prints, refactor code

* delete old test

* update python tests cmake

* Delete depracated conv bias

* Delete outdated bias from convolution test

* add logspace yaml

* update by comments

* resolve test framework conflicct

Add PTQ and exporting function
1. Add Post-Training Quantization
1.1 Abstract some functions from QAT to Quantization class
1.2 Add Post-Training Quantization by extending Quantization class
1.3 Add observers for PTQ
1.4 Add unittest for PTQ
2. Add exporting function for QAT and PTQ

* support xpu multi-card infer

* add ut

* clean code

* clean code

* fix

* fix

* fix

* fix

* polish namespace

* change static_tensor_operants

* polish namespace

* support add, subtract, divide

* add unit test

* polish unittest

* fix cmake error

* polish unittest

* [XPU] update xccl to 1.0.8

* update xdnn. add uint8 for concat and split.

* update xdnn to 20230215.

* [XPU] add group_norm kernel

* update

* add xpu sin, cos, randint, linspace kernels

* update

* update

* move layer_norm_kernel.cu.h to phi

* fix bugs

* fix namespace

* fix bugs

* fix CI-Windwos

* replace mutable_data

* fix bugs

* fix bugs

* Use StandaloneExecutor in FleetExecutor

* Update FLAGS

* Fix CI errors

* Update code

* Add force_root_scope_vars config

* Update code

* Fix CI errors

* Fix test_layer_new errors