Fix compilation problem (#31100)

* support npu allocator

* add npu device context

* fix some compile problem

* fix some compile problem

* add npu info

* compile ok

* fix include dir

* support naive_best_fit_allocator

* run ut ok, bug failed to exit

* call aclrtResetDevice before exit

* fix aclFinilize

* add system allocatot test

* add selected_gpus in gtest

* add tensor_test for npu

* support npu op, initial commit

* add npu stream

* add elementwise_add_op

* compile ok

* fix typo

* fix elementwise_add_op_npu_test

* support op run

* test can run but failed

* change aclopExecuteV2 to aclopCompileAndExecute

[feature] support npu allocator

fix compilation on ascend-20.1

Add distribution supported

Fix compilcation on CANN20.1 and older 

fix compile problem on FT

* upgrade oneDNN version to 2.0 master branch

* - Added workarounds for new lib onednn change

* fix regex
Co-authored-by: NJacek Czaja <jacek.czaja@intel.com>

* add aarch64 and sunway kunlun lib

* minor

* optimize elementwise_add for kunlun

* update kunlun dependence

* minor

* minor

* Support MIPS arch.

* oneps (3/4)
Co-authored-by: NMrChengmo <cmchengmo@163.com>
Co-authored-by: Nmalin10 <malin10@baidu.com>
Co-authored-by: Nchengmo <chengmo@baidu.com>

* upgrade oneDNN with GRU INT8 optimizations

* fix test

* fix expand && concat/transpose to new api

* update xpu_header

* update activation op on kunlun

* update activation op on kunlun

* update activation op on kunlun

* update activation op on kunlun

* update activation op on kunlun

* add nearest_interp on kunlun

* update error message

* 添加rocm平台支持代码

* 修改一些问题

* 修改一些歧义并添加备注

* 修改代码格式

* 解决冲突后的代码修改

* 修改operators.cmake

* 修改格式

* 修正错误

* 统一接口

* 修改日期

* support roi_align & affine_channel for kunlun

* minor

Co-authored-by: Nroot <root@bjhw-sys-rpm0223.bjhw.baidu.com>

* update conv2d & softmax to new xpu api
* test=kunlun

* remove useless comments
* test=kunlun

* remote softmax xpu op
* test=kunlun

* update kunlun softmax
* test=kunlun

* update xpu unitest
* test=kunlun

* fix elementwise_grad bug for kunlun
*test=kunlun

* 1.add xpu slice op 2. add xpu top_k op 3.modify xpu cast to new api

* 1.add xpu slice op 2. add xpu top_k op 3.modify xpu cast to new api

*test=kunlun

* update version pybind to v2.4.3, test=develop

* update unittests, test=develop

* build gloo from source code , test=develop