add var_conv_2d + relu fuse pass

* [XPU] add transpose bridge and unit test

test=develop

* optimize content-dnn cuda kernel

* Support Mask RCNN2 (#2588)

[LITE][NPU][XPU] Refine subgraph pass, and support NPU/XPU model generation at execution time (#2576)

* add arm split lod tensor, test=develop

* add arm merge lod tensor, test=develop

* update split merge lod tensor, test=develop

* add reduce_prob op, test=develop

* support mask_rcnn succeed, test=develop

- fix fill_constant bug.
- cast op support int64_t->int32_t

update cuda kernels to run content-dnn model

test=develop

test=develop

* fill_constant can support shape is tensor or tensorlist

* [XPU] update conv padding

test=develop

* [XPU] exclude xpu for passes

test=develop

* fix conv padding compute

test=develop

* [NPU] update 2-pad to 4-pad for conv and conv_transpose

test=develop

* reuse UpdatePadding code

test=develop

 fix ccompute shape error in ooperators/conv_op.h, test=develop

* arrange ops&kernels to support basic models
* add relu and iocopy into basic
* add fusion_elementwise_activation_ops into basic
* add dropout,layout,io_copyonce kernel&op into basic 

* update x86 op and kernel to run content-dnn model test=develop

* split op upgrade

* fix conv 2-pad to 4-pad

* fix compute conv shape

* fix pad, test=develop

* change conv_depthwise_3x3s1_fp.cc name to conv3x3s1p01_depthwise_fp32.cc to distinguish between conv3x3s1_depthwise_fp32.cc

* delete printf note in conv3x3s1, test=develop

* delete printf note, test=develop

* delete gem_sdot.h, test=develop

it is coped from __gemm_sdot_meta_.h

* update compute padding, test=develop

* fix padding size, must be 2 or 4. test=develop

* fix format in operators/conv_op.cc, test=develop

* change #if 0 to #if 1, test=develop

* put 2-pad to 4-pad in AttachImpl, test=develop

* fix clang-format error inn tests/math/connv_compute_test, test=develop

* fix x86 test result error, test=develop

* add asymmetric padding test case in liite/tests/math/conv_compute.cc, test=develop

* change paddings type to support dynamically modify, test=develop

* fix x86 build error in connv_compute_test, test=develop

* fix opencl build error, test=develop

* fix oopencl build error, test=develop

* fix  opencl/conv_compute build error, test=develop

* fix  opencl/conv_compute build error, test=develop

* fix format in kernels/opencl/conv_computte_ttest,test=develop

* fix build error, test=develop

fix build error in kernels/x86/conv_compute.h

* fix pooling bug and speed

* fix build error

* delete VLOGin pool, test=develop

* add openmp, test=develop

* fix lite/kernels/arm/pool_compute_test basic_pooling compute error bug, test=develop

* update pooling 2-pad to 4-pad, test=develop

* fix 2-pad to 4-pad in operators/pool_op.h, AttachKernel will set param, so 2-pad to 4-pad funcs should put in AttachKernel. test=ddevellop

* put 2-pad to 4-pad in AttachImpl, test=develop

* according to reviews, fix some format error. test=develop

* fix format errorr, add (). test=develop

* change paddings type to support dynamically modify, test=develop

* update padding type int other devices, test=develop

* fix x8d build error on shared_ptr, test=ddevelop

* fix formmat in operators pool_op.cc, test=develop

test=develop

* add x86 op and kernel : search_fc and sequence_topk_avg_pooling   for content-dnn model test=develop

* [X86] add attention_padding_mask op, x86 kernel and unit test

test=develop

* [CUDA] add attention_padding_mask cuda kernel and unit test

test=develop

- add var_conv_2d cuda kernel

- add var_conv_2d cuda kernel unit test

- temporarily set to two input mode, remove input(ROW) and input(COLUMN)

add search_group_padding op and x86 kernel

* [X86][CUDA] add sequence_arithmetic op , x86 kernel, cuda kernel and unit test

test=develop

* add sequence_arithmetic cuda kernel unit test

test=develop

* add search_seq_depadding x86 and cuda
* add match_matrix_tensor x86
* add search_grnn x86, no test

- add var_conv_2d op

- add var_conv_2d x86 kernel

- add var_conv_2d x86 test

* fix the compile error for cuda and fix unit test

* update lookup_table arm x86, test=develop

* add lookup_table_v2_op for compatibility, test=develop

- add sequence_reverse op

- add sequence_reverse kernel for x86 and cuda

- add sequence_reverse_test for x86 and cuda

- add sequence_concat op

- add sequence_concat kernel for x86 and cuda

- add sequence_concat_test for x86 and cuda

align the lite nearest， bilinear op to fluid on arm and cuda

* fix error for AxesTensorList in unsqueeze op

* update concat and unsqueeze, test=develop