* add new macro BOOST_GET_SAFELY & unittests, test=develop

* add different macro type, test=develop

* fix get macro type in executor, test=develop

* four macro part change backup

* using one macro for all case, test=develop

* revert attribute change, test=develop

* change to three func to solve gcc4.8 bug, test=develop

* polish some details, test=develop

* enhance the error message of box_coder, test=develop

* enhance error message in box_decoder_and_assign

* enhance error message of collect_fpn_proposals

* enhance errror message of distribute_fpn_proposals

* enhance error message of multiclass_nms, test=develop

TemporaryAllocator is a singleton used for allocating memory for Cudnn. Since it is a singleton, we can delete it for better performance in memory.

We replace TemporaryAllocator by CUDADeviceContextAllocator and CUDADeviceContextAllocation, which uses stream callback to delete the memory allocated for the stream to avoid singleton.

Also added data_feed_proto to operator to fix CI in CPU compilation

* add normalize switch to box_coder_op

* add default prior box var

* update according to the review

* "re-commit "

* "picked up"

* "fix ci"

* "fix pdb hang up issue in cuda 9"

* fix ssd problems

* fix box decoder op

* fix dimension problem in detection tests

* update detection doc

* Update detection doc

* Update detection doc

* update detection doc

* update detection doc