[cherrypick-2.3] modify infer gpu memory strategy (#41427), remove cudnn_deterministic=True (#41341)  (#41491)
Co-authored-by: NJingZhuangzhuang <75348594+JZZ-NOTE@users.noreply.github.com>

* remove paddle_ipu shared library

* fix unique_name

* add multiclass_nms3 converter

* add onnxruntime predictor

* Add code comments

* support link paddle2onnx onnxruntime

* support onnxruntime with python

* support onnxruntime with python

* support onnxruntime with windows

* paddle2onnx compile with windows

* supoort windows compile

* supoort windows compile with onnxruntime

* supoort windows compile with paddle2onnx

* supoort mac compile

* compile with mac

* compile with mac

* add code comments

* fix remind word

* code optimization

* add test case

* add test case

* add inference demo_ci test case

* fix compile paddle2onnx with no python

* add inference demo_ci test case

* add inference demo_ci test case

* add inference infer_ut test case

* support c go api and test cases

* add converage test case

* add converage test case

* add capi test case

* add capi test case

[fleet_executor] Add entrance of FleetExecutor in AnalysisPredictor for distributed inference (#39992)

* update inference part

* restore white space

* fix pass and convert_op for preln_ernie and add preln_ernie'flag in pass

* rename pten dir to phi

* rename namespace to phi

* rename infrt pten dir to phi

* resolve conflict

* rename pten to phi in cmake

* revert all infrt change

* change needed files

* fix infrt failed

* fix inference failed

* Unify paddle/pten::framework::ddim into pten::ddim

* fix paddle namespace

* compile sucessfully

* fix npu src file

* fix conflict

* fix conflict

* fix tensorrt compiler error

* fix conflict

* fix conflict

* fix tesst file conflict

* fix conflict

* fix mlu file conflict

* fix mlu file conflict

* fix cinn header file conflict

* fix conflict

* fix conflict

* fix conflict

* fix conflict

[Paddle-Inference] support preln-ernie: add preln_emb_eltwise_layernorm_op, preln_skip_layernorm_op (#39570)

* support preln_ernie: add preln_emb_eltwise_layernorm_op, preln_skip_layernorm_op

* support preln_ernie: add preln_emb_eltwise_layernorm_op, preln_skip_layernorm_op

* #1 migrate dist-related type()-> dtype()

* move datatype function from pten -> fluid/framework

* change type() in imperative into convert(dtype())

* modify xx_tensor->type into xx_tensor->dtype

* change the set_type interface and the caller

* modify xx_tensor.type into xx_tensor.dtype

* fix mutable_data(place, dtype())

* change caller of mutable_data in pten and distributed

* change the caller of mutable_data in fluid/framework

* change the caller of mutable_data in imperative directory

* mutable_data: inference

* update the call of mutable_data

* transfer MakePenScalarArray MakePtenScalar ResetHolderWithType

* pass the compile. the next step is remove VarType in Pten

* fix all and remove VarType from pten. success in linux. Next task is other platform

* fix conflict with develop

* fix compiled error

* Fix reset conversion

* fix conflict

* fix compiled problem

* fix typo

* Fix << in tensor_utils.cc

* fix type->dtype

* fix unittest

* fix tensor init constructor

* fix DataTypeSize for BFloat16

* fix code style

* fix npu compiled error

* fix npu

* compile npu sucessfully

* fix conflict

* fix conflict
Co-authored-by: Nxiongkun <xiongkun03@baidu.com>

* support npu weight unified H2D copy

* remove redundant variable

* add pten::Place data structure.

* update ci problem

* fix ci problem

* update

* using platform::Place=pten::Place

* remove BOOST_GET_CONST for CPUPlace and GPUPlace

* compile pass 25%.

* compile pass 45%

* compile pass 60%

* remove boost_get for xpu npu mlu and ipu

* compile pass on cpu and gpu.

* fix compile problem

* fix compile error.

* update

* fix ci problem

* update

* ci approve

* fix ci problem

* fix ci eager test problem

* remove BOOST_GET_CONST

* fix npu compile

* add trt_convert_flatten_contiguous_rang op

* trt version >7,support trt_convert_flatten_contiguous_rang

* trt version >7,support trt_convert_flatten_contiguous_rang

* trt version >7,support trt_convert_flatten_contiguous_rang

* test cast add trt version >=7 skip

* add Paddle Trt config: with_interleaved

* glog fix

* changed approach

* dynamic shape clone supported

* support external stream.

* update

* update

* update

* add ipu_inference

* resovle commments

* resolve comments

* add EnableIpu introduction

* rm line

* restore npu update

* add ernie and resnet50 test

* fix copyright time
Co-authored-by: Nyaozhixin <522190855@qq.com>

* refine structure for cuda and rocm

* update

* update

* update

* update

* move extension into pten [no-verify]

* append tensor methods by ext_tensor [no-verify]

* append other tensor methods [no-verify]

* ext related files tidy [no-verify]

* include relation tidy [no-verify]

* add pten tensor test [no-verify]

* replace tensor in custom op & compile success

* refine tensor constructor for unittest

* custom relu jit run success

* fix all custom op unittests

* add inference cmake adapt [no-verify]

* fix failed unittests

* fix windows failed unittests

* try to fix kunlun and inference failed

* fix test_elementwise_api error

* try to fix win compile failed

* fix kunlun fp16 type error

* remove useless haddle error macro

* add custom linear op test

* fix compile failed & add win symbols

* fix non pten kernel cast failed

* add dll decl for api

* polish several deetails

* polish details by review comment

* add dll_decl for register

* add dcnv2 plugin

* update

* fix ut error

* update ut

* add nearest_interp_v2 trt plugin

* add mish trt plugin, compile & install success, run error. test=develop
* modify code according to review
* add TRT_NOEXCEPT for mish trt plugin
* add unittest for mish trt plugin
* remove unnecessary check of mish in op_teller.cc
* fix some problem of trt8
* add check and modify unittest while converting mish to trt plugin
Co-authored-by: Ndengkaipeng <dengkaipeng@baidu.com>

* conv3d

* remove const_cast

* modify ut

* disable dynamic shape for trt6.0

* remove trt5