[XPU][PHI Kernels] bind bitwise_add kernel & add int32/int64 support to scatter_nd_add kernel for xpu (#54066)

* bind new kernels to xpu

* refine code

* fix bugs in unittest

* fix empty bugs for xpu

* fix empty bugs for xpu

* bind xpu op: 3D grid sample

* fix edge cases in xpu op: reshape & slice

* add pad op for xpu

* add pad op for xpu

* add pad op for xpu

* add_depthwise_conv2d_transpose

* Update test_depthwise_conv2d_transpose_op_xpu.py

删除print语句

* fix as review, add fp16 conv2d_transpose

* fix unittest of bn and reduce_mean

* fix bn unittest

* fix ci

* fix ci

* [Zero-Dim] add 0D Tensor UT case for XPU

* fix comment

* remove some unnecessary UT

* bind sparse_coo_tensor, reduce_max/max_int32, range/arange_int32, equal_bool, scatter_grad_float32, nearest_interp_int64 kernels

* add more unit tests; modify compilation logic of xpu sparse kernels

* rem npu in test

* restore some code

* [XPU] fc use int_with_ll_t

* fix test_unbind_op_xpu

* relocate metri_op.py

* reloacte nn.py

* fix bug

* fix bug

* fix bug

* fix bug

* fix bug

* fix bug

* fix variable->tensor and fix __all__

* fix ctr_metric_bundle and sparse_embedding

* fix bug of function init

* fix bug of importing sparse_embedding and ctr_metric_bundle

* fix bug

* Update __init__.py

* support 0-D output and 0-D as indice in __getitem__

* fix tests

* fix inference and UT

* add unittest for setitem

* fix xpu test

* fix xpu 0-d

* [XPU] add numel op

* [XPU] update numel/size op registration

* move python/paddle/fluid/tests/unittests/xpu to test/xpu

* update CMakeLists.txt

* remove xpu in fluid/tests/unittests/

* add path to op_test_xpu

* fix incorrect path

* update test script

* fix test_adadelta_op_xpu error

* mv paddle/fluid/platform/device/xpu/tests 2 test/xpu/cpp

* add missing cmake