[XPU] add multi_encoder_xpu_slice_fuse_pass, generate_sequence_xpu_fuse_pass, generate_sequence_xpu kernel (#50570)

* New onednn test

* checkopoint

* added new test, fixed issue with onednn bias

* fix bias check

* remove prints, refactor code

* delete old test

* update python tests cmake

* Delete depracated conv bias

* Delete outdated bias from convolution test

* Done

* Deleted old python test, fixed new python test, changed names in parallel_UT

* Revert parallel UT changes

* Revert parallel UT changes v2

* Review fixes and simplification of conv output shape calculation, disabled sqrt from conv_act_duse_pass

* delete sqrt from possible activations from conv_concat_relu test

* review refactor

* merge main

* delete sqrt from list of compatible activations

* Test with no outdated inputs

* move profiler

* add file

* fix mac compile bugs

* fix ci bugs

* fix mac bugs

* fix ci bugs

* fix compile bugs

* perfect code according comment

* eleadd_trans first version

log fix

* refine code for linear format, add pass check

* linear format refine and ut fix

* fix ut

* windows ut

* windows ut 2

* move tensorMeta and alloc to configure

* trans_layernorm

* QuantTranpose pattern is being found by pass

* quant + transpose fuse

* code style changes

* UT written, reorder fixed

* Dequantize + transpose2 fuse  added

* pass name changed

* UT added & shift corrected

* got rid of redundancy

* review changes

* AsIntermediate corrected

* compat added

* conv_bias_mkldnn_fuse_pass_tester rewritten

* conv_concat_relu_mkldnn_fuse_pass_tester rewritten

* conv_elementwise_add_fuse_pass_tester rewritten

* mkldnn changed to onednn

* tests added to cmakeLists, style fix

* got rid of unnecessary UT, some style changes

* changes in naming convention

* max_examples reduced

* time out added

* gn_silu

* add ut

* set TIMEOUT

* correct comments

* comments

* disable windows ut

* rename parameter

* reshape_transpose_matmul_pass_tester rewritten

* matmul_transpose_reshape_pass_tester rewritten

* mkldnn to onednn

* add trt_support_nhwc_pass

* add fmha_flashattention oss plugin

* skip_groupnorm

* init

* preln

* add ut

* more assert

* set timeout

* fix windows ci issue

* Rewritten

* change mkldnn to onednn

* fix cmake name

* Implement conv2d_fusion NHWC format using CUTLASS
* Add unit testing for CUTLASS Conv in inference
* Add experimental API for CUTLASS.

* Deleted mkldnn_inplace_pass code

* Fixed error with cmake

* Resolve conflicts

* rewrite delete_weight_deqquant_linear_op_encoder/decoder pass

* general optimization no_varlen embedding layernorm

* pass

* pass

* draft version

* share mem opt

* remove sharemem

* add pattern for the case with circle_shift=0

* add UT

* pass opt

* test_fix

* code-commit

* code-style

* code style

* code-style

* ut-fix

* op teller refine

* resolve conflict

* adjust position op_teller list and pass order for swin

* ut code style update

* adjust paddle pass order

* refine pass order

* refine pass order

* refine pass order

* delete unnecessary shape and slice op
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* optimization for ln

* fix

* added output to gpd

* added formatting

* fix

* generate static graph code for some ops by yaml

* remove deleted files

* update cmake

* update cmake

* udpate cmake

* add roformer pass&&plugin（novarlen）

* add fuse_multi_transformer_layer_pass

* softplus+activation

* fc + elementwise_add test refactored

* rename MKLDNN to OneDNN

* fc+activation tests refactored

* remove softplus ut

* whitespace

* whitespace

* codestyle

* codestyle

* add more cases to fc+act

* remove softplus+hard_sigmoid pass

* remove softplus + hard_sigmoid UT

* add approximate for gelu

* swish beta range

* new codestyle

* reduce number of tests

* suqeeze2 transpose2 fuse onednn

* format

* fix output shape

* fix conflict

* format

* format

* remove useless

* remove log

* simply pass

* fix comment

* fix

* fix msg

* fix error msg

* format

* tmp save

* minor chnage

* CI fix

* added FC optimizations

* latest update

* CI fix

* fixed bug with fusing fc

* make all cpp tests dynamic linked to libpaddle.so

* add comments

* keep old cc_test for some tests

* fix some ut

* make some ut use cc_test_old

* fix typos and fit for win32

* fix lib path

* fix some tests

* skip lite test

* fit for rocm

* fit for cinn

* fit for mac

* fit for win32

* skip inference ut

* skip  windows

* fix coverage

* prelnlayernorm_shift

* add ut

* remove paddle_enforce

* remove useless

* add UT

* remove UT

* add UT

* set timeout

* fc/matmuls + scale fuse pass

* remove double-extension

* add unit tests

* comments from review

* codestyle

* add pass to int8 list

* new codestyle

* attr name typo