apply buffer_shared_inplace_pass and inplace_addto_op_pass pass to program in Standalone Executor (#45085)

* apply inplace addto in python apply_pass

* fix

* apply inplace pass for program

* skip feed and fetch var

* fix block_desc.move_from

* fix block desc

* alltoall remove inplace

* fix

* [OpAttr]Squeeze axes support Tensor

* add support_tensor

* fix unittest

* fix coverage

* change to async mode for xpu multi-card training in static graph mode

* minor bugfix

* irrelevant. move to another pr

* move change to other pr

* fix stream issue

* fix 'stream not meet with current context' error

* fix branch diverge, test=kunlun

* fix infer tans scop

* fix infer trans scope

* fic infer trans scope

* fic infer trans scope
Co-authored-by: Ndingjiawei <327396238@qq.com>

* [OpAttr]Add SupportTensor for OpMaker

* fix typo

* fix code style

* add SupportTensor for concat op

* add unittest for register Tensor

* add shape checker and split attribute

* fix multi stream error.

* use addKernel

* fix compile

* remove elementwiseAddto

* add return

* fix custom place

* fix_stop_gradient

* xpu unittest grad compute supports more types, *test=kunlun

* add instance norm xpu, *test=kunlun

* fix squared_l2_norm bug

* update buffer.h

* move check finite and unscale kernel into phi

* move infershape into phi

* move update_loss_scaling kernel into phi

* remove original kernels

* move update loss scaling infershape into phi

* add header for xpu and npu

* solve coverage failed

* fix npu test failed

* remove mutable data in cu file

* fix new executor failed

* add valid check for meta tensor output

* [Eager draft] forward_only interface migrate to autograd_api

* strings api add dygraph forward function

* rm useless comments

* draft version for check CI

* fix ci

* forward-only no need compute_require_grad and pass stop_gradient, rm useless comments

* polish yaml and using CPUPlace = phi::CPUPlace

* rm useless comments

* polish yaml and update some test case

* rm useless funcs

* polish eager_gen code

* polish code

* convert multihead to oss

* fix:bug

* fix:delete const cast

* fix:don't support bias_qk

* add vit pass

* fix:convert bug and add preln_residual_bias

* support length=-1

* add UT for convert

* add no_bias_qk support for gpu_multihead_op

* delete infer_shape depends on bias_qk

* oss just can be used in T4 and A*

* fix:change api for ROCM CI

* fix_shape

* code style

* fix assert

* fix to_tensor badreturn

* add select_p

* fix bugs

* add custom test for select_p; modify select_p primrules

* modify according to xiaoxu's comment

* add eq_p, select_p, pow_p, use autograd to test grad of high order

* add requirement of autograd, modify expected type of eq

* modify according to xiaoxu's comment

* import primops to use primops.pow

* Reduce pool2d test configuration

* Reduce depthwise_conv2d test configuration

* Reduce trt_convert_conv2d_fusion test configuration

* Reduce trt_convert_conv2d test configuration

* Reduce trt_convert_conv2d_transpose test configuration

* Reduce trt_convert_hard_swish test configuration

* Enhance trt auto scan test error message and mechanism

* Increase FP16 trt ut tolerance

* rm useless pybind

* rm useless ut

* [Auto Parallel] Move the distributed info from python to c++

* [Auto Parallel] Add dist_attrs for VarDesc and OpDesc

* [Auto Parallel] Add the lost file

* [Auto Parallel] Make the dist attr be unique_ptr

* [Auto Parallel] Add the proto conversion

* [Auto Parallel] Improve the proto support

* [Auto Parallel] Fix the bugs for adding a device or a link

* [Auto Parallel] Add the C++ ProcessMesh and DistributedMapper

* [Auto Parallel] Improve the impl of these dist attrs

* [Auto Parallel] Pybind11 ProcessMesh and DeviceMesh

* [Auto Parallel] Fix the unittest problem

* [Auto Parallel] Explicitly add the src file for auto_parallel target

* [Auto Parallel] Add the proto depedency explicitly

* [Auto Parallel] Fix the cmake bug on windows and mac

* [Auto Parallel] Remove the pybind11 header file in process_mesh.h

* [Auto Parallel] Remove unused codes

* [Auto Parallel] Check whether the dist attr is null

* [Auto Parallel] Implement the assign operator for OpDesc explicitly

* [XPU] add some collective ops. test=kunlun

* use XPUOpTestWrapper. test=kunlun

* skip kl1 for collective ops. fix typo: deivce -> device. test=kunlun

* convert_fp16 support multi block

* update

* update

This reverts commit 84bf5c31.

* add cached_serialize_str_

* support program hash

* add sha

* add ut

* use hash_str only for new_exe

* fix attr order

* back fl

* delete ssl cert

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* make warning

* .

* unittest paral degree

* solve unittest

* heter & multi cloud commm ready

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* .

* fl-ps v1.0

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* support N + N mode

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* .

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* delete print

* .

* .

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* fix bug

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* fl-ps with coordinator ready

* merge dev

* update message parse only

* update fl client scheduler

* fix bug

* update multithreads sync

* fix ci errors

* update role_maker.py

* update role_maker.py

* fix ci error: windows py import error

* fix ci error: windows py import error

* fix windows ci pylib import error

* add dump fields & params

* try to fix windows import fleet error

* fix ps FLAGS error

* fix logging risk

* fix logging possible risk

* write trainer_desc file

* support split sparse params in local & remote

* fix import paddle.fluid.core.PSGPU

* fix import paddle.fluid.core.PSGPU

* add remote_sparse & local_sparse config

* fix unittest

* fix test_dist_fleet_geo table error

* fix PADDLE_ENFORCE error

* fix other's pr conflict

* remove v2_transpose_reshape

* matmul_transpose_reshape

* reshape_transpose_matmul

* Add int8 support for matmulV2

* restore ut

* adjust old ut

* restore parallel UT ruels

* remove mkldnn code from base ops

* move enforces to pass

* remove duplicated functions

* delete duplicated enforces

* feedback from review

* add comments to variables

* enable eltwise support

* dynamic attribute

* remove fusepass tests from op test

* remove fuse pass cases from op test

* revert introduction of dynamic attributes

* style
Co-authored-by: Nwozna <joanna.wozna@intel.com>

* support optional<vector<Tensor>> in yaml and eager

* delete useless comments in eager_gen.py

* fix api_base.py support optional<vector<TTensor>>

* python_c_gen.py support optional<vector<tensor>>

* transfer linear_interp_v2 yaml from fluid to phi

* fix op_test typo error

* change linear_interp_v2 testcase

* fix args in final_state_linear_interp_v2

* fix zeropad2d typo. test=document_fix