* Replaced add_custom_command with add_custom_target in xpu_kp_cmake

* fix bug of elementwise_add_grad, *test=kunlun

* fix bug, *test=kunlun

* rm pooling_t, *test=kunlun

* fix bug of ew_add_grad when inplace, *test=kunlun

* back fl

* delete ssl cert

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* make warning

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* unittest paral degree

* solve unittest

* heter & multi cloud commm ready

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* fl-ps v1.0

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* support N + N mode

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* fix bug

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* fl-ps with coordinator ready

* merge dev

* update message parse only

* update fl client scheduler

* fix bug

* update multithreads sync

* fix ci errors

* update role_maker.py

* update role_maker.py

* fix ci error: windows py import error

* fix ci error: windows py import error

* fix windows ci pylib import error

* add dump fields & params

* try to fix windows import fleet error

* fix ps FLAGS error

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* add xpu resnet_unit
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* tmp
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* update xccl lib
    * use separate streams for compute/comm on XPU
    * add broadcast op to xpu2_op_list

* build into one static library

* move memory/detail to memory/allocation

* fix bug

* fix profiler

* fix framework_proto

* fix deps

* fix inference compilation

* fix rocm compile

* follow comments

* fix buddy_allocator_test

* adapt mkldnn kernel in PHI

* fix ci compile bugs

* fix compile bugs

* fix compile bugs

* fix compile bugs

* fix compile bugs

* delete comment

* fix compile bugs in windows-inference

* delete code for converage

* modify code by review

* modify code by review

* add todo

* fix compile bugs

* fix compile bugs

* fix compile bugs

* fix unittest bugsx

* grid sampler op for xpu. test=kunlun

* update relu xdnn api. test=kunlun.

* rmsprop for xpu. test=kunlun

* minor fix (follow comments). test=kunlun

* add ort clone interface

* paddle2onnx update to 1.0.0rc

* ort input_tensor use mutable data of scope

style in test_iou_similarity_op_xpu.py. *test=kunlun

* copy onnxruntime.dll to c++ test folder in windows

* remove ut that failed due to onnxrumtime.dll

* test_api_impl failed of diff

* use TARGET to make sure if the test exist; use POST_BUILD to add copy command

* nvcc_lazy

* nvcc_lazy

* conv_fusion

Modify the unittests of the assign_value, iou_similarity, one_hot_v2, reduce_mean, roi_align op. test=kunlun (#44061)

* make only win32 and 11.6 use external/cub

* unify cub version in linux and windows when cuda >= 11.6

* Revert "Revert "make inference_api_test compile with dynamic linking library (#41944)" (#43882)"

This reverts commit e6d81ddf.

* modify third_party cmake

* move SKIP_CPP_TEST return in the begining

* fix or backend many inputs bug

* fix or backend many inputs bug

* fix or backend many inputs bug

* fix or backend many inputs bug

* code format

* code format

* cmake-lint

* update

* Fix cmakelint errors for generic.cmake

* Fix cmake errors

* make all phi kernels to 2(host/device) static libraries directly

* fix calling kernel_declare

* fix compile

* fix cpu compile

* fix rocm compile

* fix xpu compile

* fix xpu kp compile

* fix inference compile

* modify paddle2onnx cmake

* modify paddle2onnx cmake

* modify export interface

* modify paddle2onnx export

* paddle2onnx add mac windows

* modify paddle2onnx mac windows cmake

* modify paddle2onnx mac windows cmake

* modify paddle2onnx cmake support windows

* modify paddle2onnx cmake support windows

* modify paddle2onnx cmake support windows
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* back fl

* delete ssl cert

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* make warning

* .

* unittest paral degree

* solve unittest

* heter & multi cloud commm ready

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* fl-ps v1.0

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* support N + N mode

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* delete print

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* update xpu cmake: xdnn 0527. test=kunlun

* update to xdnn 0531.

* update to xdnn 0531. test=kunlun

* update to xdnn 0601. test=kunlun