* rm fluid “xpu_header.h” deps in phi

* move part of xpu_op_list.h from fluid to phi

* add fluid xpu_op_list deps

* add glog deps for xpu_op_list in phi

* fix PR-CI-Kunlun

* add fluid_op_name_map

* rename some kernel name

* add comments for op-kernel map

* refine map name of op to kernel

* add stat tool

* add roll and roll_grad kernels and strided_slice and strided_slice_grad kernels, test=kunlun

* add masked_selected_grad kernel,test=kunlun

* refine reduce_all

* correct sync behavior for XPU distributed training

XPU support event mechanism similar to cuda event, so it is advisable to
use an event to sync compute/comm streams for performance. However this
mechanism is never fully tested, and inconsistent loss/ending_epochs are
reported. Therefore, this PR replaces event sync with stream waiting as
a temporary solution.

* remove compile warning

* standard api

* fix xpu bugs

* add stat tool

* add roll and roll_grad kernels and strided_slice and strided_slice_grad kernels, test=kunlun

* embedding and embedding_grad add int32 input, test=kunlun

* standard api

* fix sparse bugs

* fix xpu bugs, test=kunlun

* remove hard code for custom unittest

* open ci, test=kunlun

* deal with conflict

* remove fluid/framework/generator.h from phi

* fix PR-CI-Kunlun-KP-Build fail

[PHI Decoupling] remove "paddle/fluid/platform/float16.h" and "paddle/fluid/platform/for_range.h" in phi. (#47817)

* rm "paddle/fluid/platform/float16.h" in phi

* rm "paddle/fluid/platform/for_range.h" in phi

* XPU support eager mode

* add unittest for XPU eager mode

* minor bugfix

* minor bugfix, test=kunlun

* correct copyright info

* 1. remove unsed vars/funcs
2. ProcessGroupBKCL inherit from ProcessGroupStream

* bugfix for fp16 in eager mode multi-card, test=kunlun

* rebase & fix a few issues

* use new processgroup interface, test=kunlun

* fix compile issue, test=kunlun

* remove framework/data_type.h from phi

* fix CI fail: map proto::VarType to phi::DataType

* refactor code to add more detailed comments

*test=kunlun

add roll and roll_grad kernels and strided_slice and strided_slice_grad kernels, test=kunlun (#47368)

* add stat tool

* add roll and roll_grad kernels and strided_slice and strided_slice_grad kernels, test=kunlun

* [XPU] add cumsum op. test=kunlun

* try to fix linker. test=kunlun

* try to fix linker. test=kunlun

* try to fix linker. test=kunlun

* debug. test=kunlun

* update xpu.cmake. remove unnecessary codes. test=kunlun.

* fix ci bug

* test

* Standardise batch norm

* standardize conv3d and depwise_conv2d

* fix ci bugs

* [XPU] add int64 support for slice and subtract. test=kunlun

* try to fix xpu compile. test=kunlun

* try to fix xpu compile. test=kunlun

* try to fix xpu compile. test=kunlun

* remove unnecessary modification. test=kunlun

* standard_api

* add hardtanh

* add extra attr property set

* add type_info for all context

* add onednn context to all context

* fix context compile error

* simplify conv kernel args

* pass runtime attr into dev_ctx

* fix marco error

* clear conv_grad_kernel extra args

* merge conv_grad_grad into conv_grad

* clear conv2d_grad_grad extra attrs

* clear yaml and eager extra attr

* fix conv1d error

* change to thread local

* fix npu compile failed

* try to fix windows compile failed

* add conv2d onednn phi kernel

* fix ci bugs (#36)

* fix compile bugs (#38)

* fix extra input transform bug (#39)

* support dynamic created attr (#40)

* reset extra info gen code

* rm conv_grad_grad kernel

* reimpl pass attr adapting

* add int attr support

* remove vector inputnames creating

* fix map at error

* Update paddle/phi/kernels/onednn/conv_grad_kernel.cc
Co-authored-by: NSławomir Siwek <slawomir.siwek@intel.com>

* remove useless extra attrs

* replace mkldnn_engine by onednn_engine
Co-authored-by: NYuanRisheng <yuanrisheng@baidu.com>
Co-authored-by: NSławomir Siwek <slawomir.siwek@intel.com>