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* vec softmax fw

* vec softmax bw

* add a message argument for compiler compatibility

fix increamental coverage script bug, WITH_INCREMENTAL_COVERAGE to DWITH_INCREMENTAL_COVERAGE, test=develop (#29509)

* remove addcmul

* remove unittest and other related code of addcmul

* fix bug

* fix merge conflict

fix abs double grad unittest & define the data range for the abs double grad

* add tensor_indices in AssignGroupBySize

* add rebuild group in reducer

Add Sleep Time for CUDA Retry, which is similar to our GPU retry logic. This is a try to avoid init GPU allocation random failure in unit test.

* test ccache hit statistics, test=develop

* test ccache hit statistics, test=develop

* add cache hit statistics, test=develop

* fix no percent symbol erro on windows, test=develop

* remove switch, test=develop

* fix the bug of reducer in embedding

* add comment

This reverts commit befd6d53.

* added external reorder to profiler

* added external and internal reorders to profiler

* added internal and external reorder to profiler

* added formatting to int/ext reorder commit

* removed unnecessary comment

* change hard_swish from plugin to layer

* add ut when threshold != scale

* update, test=develop

Co-authored-by: Nroot <root@bjhw-sys-rpm0223.bjhw.baidu.com>

* fix the ut of matmulv2 for broadcast

* update reduce_sum op on xpu

* update reduce_sum op on xpu

* support running on xpu

* fix tensorrt unittest precision error

* fix unittest precision error. test_trt_subgraph_pass && test_trt_dynamic_shape_transformer_prune

* add deform_conv2d,DeformConv2D

* Compiling operator libraries with Unity Build on Windows CPU.

* Compiling operator libraries with Unity Build on Windows GPU, no_test, test=windows_ci

* Add option in windows ci script, no_test, test=windows_ci

* Optimize parallel compiling, test=develop

* remove limit of parallel compile and skip some ops in UB, test=develop

* remove changes of header file, test=develop

* remove changes of header file, test=develop

* fix test_eye_op unittest failed, test=develop

* Compiling operator libraries with Unity Build on Linux, test=develop

* set default WITH_UNITY_BUILD=OFF, test=develop

* Move unity build rules into a single file and add comment, test=develop

* optimize parallel compilation, test=develop

* fix undefined reference error on coverage ci, test=develop