[Eager, Performance optimization] math op sink to Cpp level ( + and - operator as an example ) (#45811)

* [Eager] math op sink to Cpp level

* fix ci errors

* draft version

* draft version

* draft version

* support + and - operator under cpp directly

* add static test

* polish code

* promote types or unify right type to left

* recover static test case

* polish code and fix some ci errors

* support complex and polish code

* fix conflicts

* fix windows ci errors

* fix windows-inference-ci errors

* polish and fix tests

* fix test case

* polish code

* polish code

* polish code and fix code-format

* polish code

* polish code

* polish code

* polish code

* use yapf to format all python file

* yapf exclude two unittests file for they rely on writing and reading file, and format will break them

* disable diff_py_file because too many diff files cause command following failed

* add ele_add

* add ele_mul

* add ele_sub

* sovle conflict

* fix npu

* refine ele_add

* add ele_mul unittest

* refine ele_sub

* refine ci

* refine unittest

* add relu6_ hardsigmoid_ leaky_relu_ Inplace APIs

* add softmax_with_cross_entropy_ Inplace API

* add clip_ scale_ add_ subtract_ Inplace APIs

* add wlist

* fix parameter of scale api

* add add_n_ Inplace API and remove log_ Inplace API

* fix elementwise_add_ and elementwise_sub_ broadcast problem

* elementwise inplace api give error message before run the op

* use broadcast_shape in elementwise inplace op

* add 8 inplace apis that is auto generated

* add unittest for all inplace apis

* add decorator for inplace apis in static mode

* fix windows blas fail of exp inplace api, change array_equal to allclose

* add flatten inplace api

* add flatten unittest

* fix flatten unittest

* add decorator

* fix grad.numpy in test_pylayer_op

* unsupport softmax_with_cross_entropy_

* add test_inplace_softmax_with_cross_entropy to static_mode_white_list

* delete __all__ in inplace_utils

* delete activation inplace function and add Tensor.inplace_func

* change paddle.inplace_ to Tensor.inplace_

* fix little problem

* add paddle in inplace_utils

* type promotion for grad

* add type promotion for div op

- ngarph: elementwise_sub, elementwise_mul
- mkldnn: transpose, sum
- others: scatter_nd

test=develop

test=develop

* fix input shape of op tests for elementwise_sub,
gather, pad2d, transpose, softmax, scale,
elementwise_max, hierarchical_sigmoid, reshape2,
sign, squeeze, reduce_sum, sum, squeeze2,
unsqueeze, unsqueeze2, cast, reverse

test=develop

* fix cast, elementwise_mul, gather, scale, sign,
softmax, transpose

test=develop

elementwise broadcast function enhancement

* "add gradient register"

* "make some enhance"

* "better format"

* "fix typo"

* "fix reuse"

* "fix get expected kernel"

* "change the mkldnn code"

* "fix mkldnn"

* "fix mkldnn failed test"

* "add comment"

Currently, our tests run with 2 GPUs, the init time is absurdly long:
about 4s for each process.  Currently, we run each OP test on
different processes. This PR:

1. create cmake function py_test_modules which will generate the
Makefile that runs a list of Python unittest module in a single Python
process.

2. move all "python unittest compatible" (e.g., used the unittest
package, not just a regular python file). from fluid/tests to
fluid/tests/unittests.

3. cmake now will run all OP tests in fluid/tests/unittests in a
single process, except the time-consuming tests, they are separated
into different processes to utilize parallelism. Please make sure to
use the unittest package if you put the python test file in
fluid/tests/unittests

4. remove all exit(0) from fluid/tests/unittests/*.py, exit(0) is used
to disable unittest, we can not do it when running all tests in a
single process since it will terminate the process without running the
other tests. Instead, the test is disabled in
fluid/tests/unittests/CMakeLists.txt. FIXME is added for each disabled
item. Please disable the unittest from
fluid/tests/unittests/CMakeLists.txt, instead of adding exit(0) to the
Python file, for all Python file in fluid/tests/unittests/.

5. add an option WITH_FAST_BUNDLE_TEST. When OFF, will run the unit
tests in separate process so that they can be tested individually.

* add copyright hook

* add copyright hook

* refine copyright hook

* "test copyright hook"

* fix check style

* fix ci

* init commit

* change some dir name

Elementwise operator add/sub/mul/div