[MLU] add some basic support for MLU, including related passes, kernels, gtests and some api in padddle_api.h
Passes：mlu_subgraph_pass ,mlu_postprocess_pass
Kernels:  act，batch_norm, concat, conv, elementwise, fc, interpolate, pool, scale, softmax

* Add hard_swish, ctc_align and reciprocal op, test=develop
* Move some activation ops to extra, test=develop

* rm grad code

* add mul_grad, test=develop

* add sgd op, test=develop

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* add backend

* add kernel

* add grad kernel

* [NPU] subgraph's precision register to kAny

* add mean op, test=develop

* split forward and backward, test=develop

* add lookup_dequant_op

* enhance gather, lookup_table arm kernel uts

* enhance beam_search, beam_search_decoder, increment rigster

* add sequence_conv op and arm kernel

* add test, test=develop

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* modify code style. test=develop

* fix ut, test=develop

* delete unused code, test=develop

* Add reduce sum op test
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add gemm + relu6/leakyrelu fusion

- enhance interp InferShape

* Support bitman backend

[LITE][NPU] Add instance_norm op bridge and unit test, refine the registration of op bridges (#2747)

* [NPU] enhance unittest for shuffle_channel, unsqueeze, pool

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X86 and cuda compile simutaneously cmake ..  -DCMAKE_BUILD_TYPE=RelWithDebInfo  -DWITH_MKL=ON           -DLITE_WITH_CUDA=ON           -DWITH_MKLDNN=OFF           -DLITE_WITH_X86=ON           -DLITE_WITH_PROFILE=OFF          -DWITH_LITE=OFF           -DLITE_WITH_LIGHT_WEIGHT_FRAMEWORK=OFF           -DWITH_PYTHON=OFF           -DWITH_TESTING=ON           -DLITE_WITH_ARM=OFF           -DLITE_ON_TINY_PUBLISH=OFF           -DCUDNN_ROOT=/usr/local/cudnn/           -DLITE_BUILD_EXTRA=ON (#2708)

x86 and cuda compile simutaneously

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* Fix the compiling error which occurs when specify the ddk_root path and build for huawei NPU.

* Refine the registration of op bridges and make it similar to the registration of op and kernel.

* Refine the interfaces of the graph and node for op bridges, and support creating constant and data node automatically according to the attribute 'persistable' of the target tensor.

* Add the unit test of the scale and softmax op bridge for NPU.

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* Support multiple types for XPU and NPU op bridges

* Add lookup_table, gather, slice, stack and scale op bridges for supporting BERT

* Fix the definition of lookup_table kernel for X86

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* [XPU] elementwise_add unit test

* [XPU] softmax unit test

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