[LITE][NPU][XPU] Refine subgraph pass, and support NPU/XPU model generation at execution time (#2576)

* init resnet cuda int8 support
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* refine cuda unit test
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* add the forgeted file.
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[LITE][ALL] Refine NPU and XPU passes, fix the pass matching based on the bound targets and excluded targets (#2477)

* Fix bug target for kHost and kARM not equal. test=develop

* Fix license. test=develop

* add debug -g option. test=develop

* enable opencl demo. test=develop

* Fix model_optimize_tool found no opencl kernel. test=develop

* add more vlog. test=develop

* remove macro LITE_WITH_OPENCL, LITE_WITH_FPGA in passes. test=develop

* Fix valid_places in mobilenetv1_test. test=develop

* Fix bug of find no real output of fetch, after tool OPs of optimzer passes. test=develop

* Fix vlog as log message in model_optimize_tool. test=develop

* fix miscs. test=develop

* fix comment. test=develop

* Fix misspell of opencl, fpga kernels name in lite/api/CMakeLists.txt. test=develop

* add opencl macro in full_api of demo. test=develop

* Initial support for XPU
* Fix compiling errors of XPU
* Move XPU op kernel bridges from backends to kernels to fix deps order
* Change the namespace and directory of XPU bridges
* Add XPU SDK
* Fix header files and namespace of XPU SDK
* Add unit tests for relu and conv2d ops
* Restore the modification of paddle_api_test
* Supports simple model which contains only a relu layer
* Add compiling scripts for XPU
* Fix compiling errors of XPU
* Add comments for XPU LoadModel and BuildModel

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* [framework][place] remove prefered_place, use place order in valid_place array instead test=develop

* remove kHost from valid_places test=develop

* [NPU] Fix the bug of loading multi NPU models
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* [NPU] Use lite tensor to store NPU model, fix the management of multi NPU models, support loading NPU model from memory and reduce the modification of framework
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* [NPU] Remove redundant header files for NPU bridges,
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* [NPU] fix NPU deps
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* [NPU] refine the compiling script for NPU
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* [NPU] remove redundant subdirectory in lite/CMakeLists.txt
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* [NPU] Fix and refine NPU test case
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* [NPU] revoke the modification of other non-NPU modules
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* [NPU] Remove NPU bridges if target is tiny publish
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* [LITE][OPENCL] support image2d. test=develop

* add context changed with consider image*. test=develop

* add layout, relu image kernels. test=develop

* replace image_data with data, mutable_image_data with mutable_data, test=develop

* comment unused var. test=develop

* remove unused var. test=develop

* checkout if passes match targets and kernels, test=develop

* add pass_utils, test=develop

* fix lite/core/mir/pass_registry.h, test=develop

* improve code styles, test=develop

* fix spell error, test=develop

* make passes related to the device type, test=develop

* improve tips, test=develop

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* Fix timer of arm cpu profiler. test=develop

* Fix un-added op in cmake.test=develop

* fix cmake error

* fix cmake error, test=develop

* Fix pass sequence. test=develop

* replace option with lite_option. test=develop

* disable profile mode by default. test=develop

* Fix error option name. test=develop

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* add npu script and tester

* fix npu armv7 so and refine tests

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* update fix and refine log

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* refine npu generate api

* refine npu subgraph

* refine npu gen and clean code

* fix model laod

* refine node2rm in subgraph

* refine the build npu functions

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* add transpose-softmax-transpose fuse pass

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* enable supported lite-npu ops

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