cherry-pick : #46016, #46021, #45974

* [Sparse]Sparse add support gpu (#45974)

* [Sparse]Remove unused code (#46021)

* [Sparse] Add infer meta (#46016)

* add fusion dir and fuse_softmax_mask kernel

* remove fusion kernel dir

* migrate infershape

* fix code errror

* add tensor array

* fix ci bugs

* fix ci bugs

* fix ci bugs

* fix ci bugs

* update by comment

* update code

* [XPU]Migrate Adam XPU kernel into Phi

* test=kunlun

* add coalesce_tensor kernel

* polist coalesce_tensor kernel

* add sig and InferMeta

* add testcase

* add legacy_api.yaml

* fix infermeta

* fix yaml

* fix kernel implementation

* add compile dependency of phi/kernels

* fix MetaConfig

* add python api

* add and fix testcase

* rnn.py add import

* change _C_ops.coalesce_tensor

* remove useless comments

* add SetBackend

* restore XPU kernel temporarily

* fix code according to PR comments

* remove fluid kernel and activate phi kernel

* fix parameter error

* transfer mkldnn part

* modify header file path

* fix compile error

* transfer special case

* fix lod setting and special case for layout setting

* add testcase and refine code

* move mkldnn activation kernel

* fix compile bugs

* fix compile bugs

* deal with conflict

* fix compile bugs

* fix windows compile bugs

* mkldnn unittest fix

* change mutable to alloc

* fix unittest bugs

* modify code according comment

* move fft kernels to phi, done with cufft, pocketfft, mkl_cdft, hipfft
* make stft_op use fft from phi/kernels/funcs, clean code

* add cmake enforce

* transfer multiclass_nms3  to phi

* compile into one static library

* fix xpu compile

* fix xpu compile

* fix inference compile

* fix inference compile

* add custom test

* revert one file

* draft version

* draft version

* draft version

* migrate solve kernel to phi

* polish

* polish

* re useless header file, fix a bug in grad_kernel_impl

* add header file in need

* adapt mkldnn kernel in PHI

* fix ci compile bugs

* fix compile bugs

* fix compile bugs

* fix compile bugs

* fix compile bugs

* delete comment

* fix compile bugs in windows-inference

* delete code for converage

* modify code by review

* modify code by review

* add todo

* fix compile bugs

* fix compile bugs

* fix compile bugs

* fix unittest bugsx

* perfect copy

* deal with conflict

* deal with conflict

* fix compile bugs

* fix unittest bugs

* change code format

* deal with conflict

* modify code by review

* fix ce bugs

* fix ce bugs

* add lo

* perfect code format

* deal with conflicts

* fix xpu kp compilation

* add depends

* make all phi kernels to 2(host/device) static libraries directly

* fix calling kernel_declare

* fix compile

* fix cpu compile

* fix rocm compile

* fix xpu compile

* fix xpu kp compile

* fix inference compile

* merge all phi lib to several big static lib

* merge all phi lib to several big static lib

* split reduce_kernel

* rm reduce_kernel in cmake

* split reduce_grad kernels

* fix cmake build error

* format code

* fix standalone_executor_test error

* change cudnn helper for auto-tune

* Add FLAGS_use_autotune to set the global status of autotune and change the order of choosing algorithm.

* Fix the bug in calculating and printing current step cache hit rate.

* Improve the autotune cache and fix unittest.

* Change the key from AlgorithmType to int64_t.

* Fix unittest for cpu-only env.

* change ChooseAlgoByWorkspace for heuristic mode
Co-authored-by: NLiu Yiqun <liuyiqun01@baidu.com>

* add cross_entropy_with_softmax phi kernel

* remove softmax_with_cross_entropy kernel

* add softmax_with_cross_entropy grad kernel

* remove original op kernel

* refine cross entropy impl

* fix pointer error

* revert kernel cu change

* fix xpu failed

* fix cinn failed

* fix npu failed

* add forward sig

* add check_nan_inf for pt kernel

* remove repeat cmake item

* fix unittest error

* move rnn kernel to phi

* move infershape of rnn to phi

* fix HIP bug

* rename function

* fix HIP bug

* fix hip bug

* move momentum, rmsprop to phi; test=develop

* update

* update

* update

* update

* udpate; test=develop

* fix xpu npu bugs; test=develop

* fix npu bug; test=develop

* fix windows compile error; test=develop

* fix windows compile error; test=develop

* polish code; test=develop

* fix conflict; test=develop

* add meshgrid;

* update

* polish code

* polish code;

* fix bug

* format; remove useless code

* fix npu bug

* fix bug

* moving OP

* move forward

* move grad and infershape

* code format

* format code

* fix code

* fix code

* fix CMakerLists.txt

* fix comments

* Refine CMakeLists for rocm ci

* add string tensor and case convert kernels

* Add strings empty kernel; Reorganize the structure of case convert kernel

* Add string infermeta

* Update mutable_data of string tensor

* rename kernel name

* add string copy tmp

* Fix strings copy device bug

* add utf8 gpu converter

* add string tensor c++ api

* Remove mutable_data of string tensor

* update string tensor interface

* remove charcases_flag.h

* remove some fluid headers

* Add make_ddim

* __HIPCC__ -> PADDLE_WITH_HIP

* remove fluid headers

* fix cpu compile

* remove std::hash

* Fix cudaMalloc

* Remove strings/impl directory

* Fix infrt/get_phi_kernel_info.py;Add custom_kernels deps

* Add empty kernel test

* Remove some comments

* Modify lower/upper api encoding type: string->bool

* STRING->PSTRING; Add CreateInferLikeMeta

* Add code gen for C++ String API

* remove strings_api_utils.h

* Add ignore file (strings_api.h, strings_api.cc)

* update strings gen script

* change args order of case convert kernels

* Add comments for pstring, StringTensor

* cpstring_internal.h -> cpstring_impl.h

* Update accordding to comments:

1. Remove fluid headers
2. paddle::platform::errors -> phi::errors
3. Use 'place.GetType() == phi::AllocationType::GPU' instead of 'paddle::platform::is_cpu_space()'
4. Use camel code style

* Remove all singletons in strings kernels

* fix rocm compile

* Fix py3 compile

* Fix c++ coverage

* 1. Add pstring proto type
2. Add StringTensor debug info
3. Rename case_convert_kernel to strings_lower_upper
4. Remove serialize derialize strings kernel

* DataLayout::PSTRING -> DataLayout::PSTRING_UNION

* Register pstring data type

* Fix strings api gen

* Fix dense tensor register pstring dtype

* Fix error messages

* remove line

* add pstring unittest

* remove test string api unitest

* remove empty line

* Remove some headers to decrease the size of executable file

* [Phi] Migrate Adam and Adamw into Phi

* fix compile error and unittest ok

* fix compile error and unittest ok

* fix undefined reference to fLI::FLAGS

* test depend on operator

* fix cmake

* fix xpu compile

* fix infrt

* fix amp_type_traits

* fix amp_type_traits

* modify according reviewer

* modify according reviewer

* fix dtype float16

* fix typo

* fix Cmake

* fix code style

* [phi] Split selected_rows CMake compilation

* move file back

* move file back

* move deformable_conv_grad to phi

* move infershape of deformable_conv to phi

* adjust some code format

* move deformable_conv_v1 to phi

* add kernel profiler

* add gpu timer tool

* remove warmup

* fix rocm complilation error

* first commit

* fix compile error

* support std::vector<std::srting>

* fix

* fix op support on GPU by chenweihang

* pass test

* infershape

* add set_dtype

* fix order

* fix

* unify the impl of dt and sr

* fix

* move reduce_mean_grad kernel into phi

* move reduce_max/min_grad into phi

* remove raw max/min grad kernel

* fix bug

* fix max/min grad error

* move all reduce_grad kernel into one file

* add prod grad kernel

* add infermeta for prod kernel

* add determinant phi kernel

* remove original determinant op kernel

* add determinant grad [hi kernel

* fix determinant test failed

* remove original determinant grad op kernel

* Move Pool OPs to phi

* Fix CI error

* Fix conflicts

* [phi] move matrix_power op

* MatrixInverse fluid -> phi

* modify the CMake to fix compile bug

* delete useless comment

* mutable memory -> phi Alloc

* modify the include file

* modify the include file

* fix bug in CI compiler