double grad support for abs 

* add batch norm double grad, test=release/1.8

* update, test=develop

* fix, test=develop

* optimize slice TRT plugin

This patch removes unnecessary barrier for data transfer of needed offset,
so data transfer can be overlap with GPU kernel execution.

This patch also fixes incorrect name of slice plugin. That is, replaces
"layernorm" with "slice"

test=develop

* add serialize/deserialize to slice plugin

* add static shape slice trt plugin

* fix slice trt op convertor dynamic shape bug

* fix format by clang-format

* fix pylint format error

* fix problems commented by peiyang
Co-authored-by: NRyan Jeng <rjeng@nvidia.com>
Co-authored-by: NShang Zhizhou <shangzhizhou@baidu.com>
Co-authored-by: NRyan Jeng <rjeng@nvidia.com>

* [Paddle-TRT] Stack op plugin (#25605)

* add stack_op to CMakeLists

* add dim=3 support for scale op

* add trt stack op, test=develop

* remove debug message

* add stack plugin serialize

* remove slice, scale op, will add later

* enhence error message

* revise trt ernie test to conver the stack op CI testi, test=develop

* add stack op serialization

* fix test shape after adding stack op

* remove slice op, will add after implementing serialization

* roll back to min_graph=5 to avoid using slice op

* fix scale op output layer

* implement stack op createPlugin

* use workspace and move the defination to .cu

* move stack plugin creator definition to .cu, test=develop

* sync ut with develop
Co-authored-by: Nzlsh80826 <zlsh80826@gmail.com>

* fix multihead matmul shared params (#27121)

* fix multihead matmul shared params

test=develop

* add double grad for expand, test=develop

* add double grad to reduce sum

cherry-pick fix cvm check
test=develop
Co-authored-by: N123malin <malin10@baidu.com>

* fix eigen in push sparse; fix hadoop command
test=develop

* add log in load_combine_op
test=develop

This commit fixs the compiling bug regarding unique_ptr of IOptimizationProfile.

IOptimizationProfile has protected dtor and is controlled by TensorRT
internally. Application shouldn't delete the pointer of IOptimizationProfile.
See TensorRT document: https://docs.nvidia.com/deeplearning/sdk/tensorrt-api/c_api/classnvinfer1_1_1_i_builder.html#a9ac47e100454151d8206ac91d543299a
test=develop
Co-authored-by: NJeng Bai-Cheng <jeng1220@users.noreply.github.com>

* mod cvm test=develop

* mod code format test=develop

* add mock barrier all (#24786)

* add mock barrier all
test=develop

* fix
test=develop

* fix
test=develop

* fix
test=develop

* fix gloo error
test=develop
Co-authored-by: Nxujiaqi01 <173596896@qq.com>

* fix dataset py3 (#25012)

* fix dataset py3 error
* test=develop

* fix logger (#24682)

* fix logger of FetchHandler，which may print log twice
* test=develop

* add timeout and http store in communication (#23436)

* add timeout and http store in communication, add revert and confirm in fleet
* test=develop

* modify datanorm op test=develop (#23030)
Co-authored-by: Nxujiaqi01 <173596896@qq.com>
Co-authored-by: Nyaoxuefeng <yaoxuefeng@baidu.com>

* add macro check for using TRT api dynamicRangeIsSet() (#25694)

* adjust minimum trt version for hard_sigmoid converter to 5130. test=develop (#24746)

* fix bug
bug fix

Co-authored-by: NTao Luo <luotao02@baidu.com>

* fix cpuid.h not found

* fix-jetson-compile-pyramid_hash

* add more info to version.txt, test=develop (#24551)

Co-authored-by: NWilber <jiweibo@baidu.com>

Co-authored-by: NWilber <jiweibo@baidu.com>

* solve conflict

* fix crash when trt not found in python; update unittest model path

* simply C++ error stack once again, test=develop

* refactor code remove string pointer and recursive, test=develop

* fix multhead matmul's instable
test=develop

* fix multihead matmul bug
test=develop

* fix converage problem
test=develop
Co-authored-by: NZhaolong Xing <nhzlx.dragon@gmail.com>

* Fix dygraph grad bugs (#25781)

* fix double grad visitid unit; test=develop

* change name hash_pair to HashPair; test=develop

* follow comment; test=develop

* remove manual seed; test=develop

* change create_graph from True to False; test=develop

* Fix the double grad bug for the star gan. (#25655)

* update the retain_graph parameter doc. test=develop

* Add some error messages for the op without double grads.

* fix the test_imperative_double_grad UT.

* fix conflict

* fix conflict

* fix code

cherry pick encryption api
Co-authored-by: NYanghello <915769235@qq.com>
Co-authored-by: NYanghello <yangqingyou@baidu.com>

Fix the condition of concat dimension judgment.

* ignore warnings of external libraries, test=develop (#24193)

* fix repeat definitions in liengine.cc, test=develop (#25020)

* remove paddle_use_kernel and paddle_use_op. test=develop (#25189)

* fix compile for lite subgraph. test=develop (#25285)

* [CI] [Lite-Subgraph] CI add lite subgraph check. (#25346)

* supports xpu runtime, test=develop (#25554)

* fix cmake of lite, test=develop (#25680)

* change commit files, test=release/1.8
Co-authored-by: NWilber <jiweibo@baidu.com>

* fix softmax_with_cross_entropy cuda kernel overflow bug, test=develop

* replace old macro & for condition, test=develop

* polish details, test=develop

* Add default cudnn lib path (#25175)

* add default cudnn lib path, test=develop

* change default path in func, test=develop

* move to linux branch, test=develop

* fix var error in other plat, test=develop

* Refactor dynamic dso search functions (#25214)

* refactor dynamic dso search func, test=develop

* polish details, test=develop

* polish detail based review comments, test=develop

* revert string type change, test=develop

* Polish install error hint message (#25531)

* polish install error hint msg, test=develop

* fix variable error, test=develop

* polish hint messgae again

* Append error op hint for GradOpMaker (#24750)

* append error op hint for grad op maker, test=develop

* add unittests for coverage, test=develop

* append try-catch to opbase run, test=develop (#24870)