fuse L2Decay and momentum when param.regularizer is set

cherry-pick #32845

* add support for optimizer with varbase input

* refine cond

* fix failed unittest

* add test for coverage

* upgrade comment string to raw string

* fix string in

* fix string with ' '

* revert update on comments

* upgrade only necessary

* fix sample code checker

* fix comments with '''

This reverts commit ab5a1fb8.

* expand parameters, test=develop

* support resnet, test=develop

* fix resnet, test=develop

* support duplicable out, test=develop

* support ptb

* fix bugs, test=develop

* support null input, test=develop

* fix bugs, test=develop

* fix batchNorm is_test, test=develop

* refine code, test=develop

* follow comments, test=develop

* follow comments, test=develop

* follow comments, test=develop

* follow comments, test=develop

* polish regularization test=develop

* add comment of function test=develop

* rm name_scope in dygraph mode test=develop

* update layers, test=develop

* update layers for resnet, test=develop

* fix is_test attr, test=develop

* update cycle_gan, test=develop

* update reinforcement_learning, test=develop

* update ocr, test=develop

* fix bug, test=develop

Modify doc for shuffle, firstn, save_vars, load_vars, L1DecayRegularizer, L2DecayRegularizer (#20287)

* modify shuffle, firstn, regularizer, load_vars, save_vars, test=develop, test=document_fix

* fix regularizer lod bug; test=develop

* fix exception bug and one_hot expand; test=develop

Fix some api example codes' bugs and these APIs include load_inference_model, load_vars, save_vars, L1DecayRegularizer and L2DecayRegularizer. (#17324)

* fix some api example codes' bugs.

* update API.spec. test=develop test=document_preview

* add import fluid. test=develop test=document_preview

* fix input<tensor>
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* fix split_ids
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* ElementwiseMul should not support SelectedRows

* fix scale op
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* change GetTensorFromVar() method to GetTensorOrSelectedRowsFromVar()

* fix operator

* refine MultiOutput

* fix MultiOutput
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* disable test_dist_save_load
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* fix elementwise_op
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* add get_sparse_as_op
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* add info for check
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* rename get_sparse_as_op with extract_rows_as_op.
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* elementwise doesn't support selected_rows

* fix regularizer

* remove extract_rows_as
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* fix ci
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* add test for sum_op

* fix regularizer
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*  test=develop

* fix pserver weight decay multi inputs test=develop

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avoid the default one that usually overwrites manually set ones

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Also deprecate LARs argument

* hide program APIs

* fix merge error

* update

* refine regularization for selected_rows

* clean lookup_table

* refine rpc_server_test

* temporally disable rpc_server_test

* fix rpc_server_test

* add unit test

* refine multi-thread CPU Parallel exe

* refine multi thread CPU Parallel exe

* Refine CPU version for ParallelExecutor

* add share_parameter_between_cards_

* Fix ParallelExecutor bug

* Fix unit test

* Fix parameter opt balance

* Fix with opti (param->grad)

* Add grad to op var

* Remove shard_param_between_cards

* "fix decode bug"

* "follow commnet"

* "fix error"

* "fix hook bug"

* fix based comment

* fix copyright

* fix based on comment

* add copyright hook

* add copyright hook

* refine copyright hook

* "test copyright hook"

* fix check style

* fix ci

* "add global regularization"

* Polish `append_regularization_ops`