功能：本PR的目标是提高attention模块的计算性能。
为了减少框架层对op的调度开销，本PR通过在C++层手动实现attention模块，对外提供attention 大op；
为了减少防存开销，本PR采取了两种优化方法：
（1）在q,k,v计算时通过共享输入X，将该处的gemm，transpose和bias add从三次调用减少为一次；
（2）使用kernel融合优化技术，在不同cuda kernel之间通过寄存器传输数据；

Add paddle.nn.functional.sparse_attention API

    本个PR主要将sparse_attention功能在python层进行了一层封装，OP的主体代码见：#PR35676

    此外，对于封装的python 接口，增加了相应的单测。

* fix pad tuple

* fix format

* fix unpool doc, test=document_fix

* fix typo for python example, test=document_fix

* [NPU] fix depthwise_conv2d_grad, test=develop

* remove debug files, test=develop

* Add New Op: gumbel_softmax

* Add New Op: gumbel_softmax

* Add New Op: gumbel_softmax (amend)

* add __main__ function in unit test

* fix bugs when test in windows ci

* update en docs

* delete reletive error in unit test

* delete relative error in unit test

* set hard=True in unit test

delete main function

1. optimize the error message of softmax_with_cross_entropy_op;2. add input value check for cross_entropy, if the dimention of input is zero, raise error. test = develop

* fix interpolate launch error, test=develop

* fix area mode for interp, test=develop

* [RC22] Fix linear with matmul_op replace

* [RC22] Fix linear with matmul_op replace

* [RC22] Fix linear with matmul_op replace

* [RC22] Fix linear with matmul_op replace

* [RC22] Fix linear with matmul_op replace

* add conv op check for illegal input or attributes

* add kernel, stride check

* add unitest for param out of range

* delete max limit check

* add maxunppol2d op, test=develop

* fix typo, test=develop

* fix unpool unitest, test=develop

* fix unpool code-example, test=develop

* fix for unpool_op_unittest,test=develop

* fix example code, test=develop

* add noqa:F401, test=develop

* fix converage, test=develop

* fix unitest for unpool, test=develop

* rename unpool2d to unpool, test=develop

* rename unpool2d to unpool, test=develop

* fix pad outliers err

* fix pad api input type and doc

* fix example of pad

* add unittest for pad3d

* fix unittest

* fix error format

* fix pad doc