Cherry-pick PR 37420, fix inplace bug when the first grad_var(loss_grad) is inplace var (#37420) (#37488)

fix inplace bug，Cherry pick PR #37420

* add backward inplace for dygraph

* fix bug

* support gradient accumulation

* fix backward bug

* format code style

* add test case for grad tensor accumulator

* optimize attr default value, test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* fix bug in AttrReader, test=develop

* fix bug, test=develop

* fix double_grad, test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* fix checker null, test=develop

* for test, test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* add relu6_ hardsigmoid_ leaky_relu_ Inplace APIs

* add softmax_with_cross_entropy_ Inplace API

* add clip_ scale_ add_ subtract_ Inplace APIs

* add wlist

* fix parameter of scale api

* add add_n_ Inplace API and remove log_ Inplace API

* fix elementwise_add_ and elementwise_sub_ broadcast problem

* elementwise inplace api give error message before run the op

* use broadcast_shape in elementwise inplace op

* add 8 inplace apis that is auto generated

* add unittest for all inplace apis

* add decorator for inplace apis in static mode

* fix windows blas fail of exp inplace api, change array_equal to allclose

* add flatten inplace api

* add flatten unittest

* fix flatten unittest

* add decorator

* fix grad.numpy in test_pylayer_op

* unsupport softmax_with_cross_entropy_

* add test_inplace_softmax_with_cross_entropy to static_mode_white_list

* delete __all__ in inplace_utils

* delete activation inplace function and add Tensor.inplace_func

* change paddle.inplace_ to Tensor.inplace_

* fix little problem

* add paddle in inplace_utils

* clear 'BasicEngine' when an exception occurs in the backward.

* deal with conflict.

* deal with conflict.

* add register backward hook method

* add leaf grad accumullated test

* add custom init grad for backward function

* add custom init grad for backward function

* handle when the grad_tensor is none

* handle when the grad_tensor is none

* fix the args type error on windows platform

* modify the args order and doc

* format code

* add grad_tensor to xpu

* modify the grad_tensor type check

* add paddle.backward api to support multi tensors gradient compute

* add paddle.backward api to support multi tensors gradient compute

* add paddle.atuograd module and backward api

* change tensor.backward func args

* modify tensor backward api

* remove create_graph intputs args

* add doc and examplex code for backward api

* when have the same tensor, throw error

* modify test Init func args

* modify the execute.Init func args in test files

* add paddle.autograd package in setup.py.in

* modify error msg, remove _run_backward method in class Tensor

* add test cases for backward api

* refactor and simplify hook design

* fix reducer add hook error

* add Tensor.register_hook basic impl

* refine prepare data impl

* revert prepare data change

* support register_hook for Tensor

* add hook test in model

* polish tests and doc example

* fix double grad test failed

* remove reduce hook func

* fix set empty error

* polish code by comments

* change reduce_hook to mutable_hook

* remove useless tmp_ins

* fix shape code format error

* fix shape code format error

* add some RecordEvent, for dygraph timeline, test=develop

* change GpuMemcpySync to memory::Copy, test=develop

* fix compile problem, test=develop

* fix compile problem, test=develop

* fix, test=develop

* fix, test=develop

* add view strategy on squeeze,unsqueeze,reshape,flatten

* add squeeze unittest

* add unittests

* use View strategy as name rather than Reuse Allacation

* fix view api doc

* fix format

* use core.ops when input of reshape2 is Tensor

* fix test_cross_entropy_loss error because of reshape2

* fix test_cross_entropy_loss error because of reshape2

* add inplace strategy

* add elementwise_add sub

* let backward op not use inplace

* grad op do not use inplace

* fix memory increase error and add leaf error message

* delete selected_rows

* change op_function

* little change

* solve HandleViewBetweenInputAndOutput

* add unittest and leaf error message

* merge view error

* optimize op_function_generator format and support sum inplace op

* fix format of basic_engine

* fix format for framework

* little change of variable wrapper

* add reshape, squeeze, unsqueeze, scatter api

* add relu elu tanh softmax inplace api

* fix test_squeeze_op unittest

* fix test_relu_op unittest

* fix comment problems

* delete sample code of inplace api

* add reference of grad_pending_nodes in basic_engine

* fix unittest name

* add inplace apis into wlist

* fix error message

* add PADDLE_ENFORCE for set grad op twice

* fix head file error

* fix dtype of ungenerated grad var

* update ut

* refine code

* set default dtype

* fix could_use_cudnn bug

* remove debug code

* re-implement

* fix bug

* try to add fwd op input dtypes

* refactor base impl

* return tmp_ins after dygraph prepare data

* fix typo found in debug

* polish comment & add complex net test

* revert detail change

* fix unittest failed

* add complex kernel condition control

* fix xpu test failed & polish comment

* polish details by review comments

* The leaf tensor concept is exposed and the gradient accumulation of leaf tensor

* The leaf tensor concept is exposed and the gradient accumulation of leaf tensor

* fix coverage

* fix api doc

* fix CI unittest

* fix CI unittest

* fix unitest

* empty tensor does’t need inner_var_

* fix some error message

* Add a class TensorInplaceVersion to count the inplace version and put it in framework::Tensor instead of Allocation or Variable.

* Add a new attribute `_inplace_version` for VarBase.

* Raise exception if an inplace operation can result in incorrect gradient computation.

* Add a new interface _bump_inplace_version() for VarBase to bump the version whenever the Tensor is modified through an inplace operation.

* For api assign, call _bump_inplace_version() when it's an inplace operation inn dynamic mode.

* Use original var_wrapper if the inplace_version is not changed.

* Replace SnapshotVarWrapperList with SnapshotVarWrapper to optimize performane.

* add base hook classes and reduce hook impl

* fix constructor typo

* polish comment format

* refactor baisc hook class design

* polish design details

Use `Tensor` instead of `Variable`  in the doc of paddle.grad.

* update the demo code and the doc of varbase.backward.

* update the doc of the fake interface `paddle.fluid.Variable`.

* remove BackwardStrategy.

* fix the double grad bug for the star gan. test=develop

* update the retain_graph parameter doc. test=develop

* add the unit test for the retain_graph parameter. test=develop

Add Support for SelectedRows for Transpose OP and Fix a Bug That SelectedRows Cannot be Supported in SimNet (#25536)

This PR fixes a bug that SelectedRows cannot be supported in SimNet. The reason of this bug is that dygraph basic_engine didn't copy var's type when the var needs to be accumulated during backward. So when a var is SelectedRows and needs to be accumulated, like SimNet which calls net for two times, the var's type will be changed to default LoDTensor thus bug happens. To fix it, we just also copy the type.

Without this PR, the accumulated SelectedRows parameters in dygraph will be changed into LoDTensor. So when we fixed the bug of supporting SelectedRows in SimNet, we found `test_imperative_lod_tensor_to_selected_rows` failed and threw the error that SelectedRows was not supported for Transpose OP. To fix it, too, this PR also added support for SelectedRows for Transpose OP.

* static model runner basic implement, test=develop

* add run program op to execute loaded program, test=develop

* refactor static model runner & run program op, test=develop

* reset engine.cc to resolve conflict

* adapt the change of dygraph double grad, test=develop

* refactor impl to solve control flow error, test=develop

* clear debug code, test=develop

* fix ci str compatible error & checkout dygraph grad maker & add example, test=develop

* hide api & add op test, test=develop

* fix run program op test places error, test=develop

* fix program by review comment, test=develop

* delete change var desc name, test=develop

* fix other program by review comment, test=develop

* remove _static_graph_guard, test=develop

* add selectedrows test, test=develop

* remove desc parser, test=develop

* fix detail program, test=develop

* change socpe create & add test, test=develop

* expose dygraph.grad api, test=develop, test=document_fix

* add more parameter in dygraph.grad API, test=develop

* add only_inputs=True parameter, test=develop

* follow comments, test=develop, test=document_fix

* fix typo, test=develop, test=document_fix

* add double grad implementation for dygraph, test=develop

* polish code, add uts, test=develop

* fix place bug, test=develop

* polish codes, add more uts for coverages, test=develop

* add no_grad_set, test=develop

* add star gan ut, test=develop

* follow comments, test=develop