* move elementwise_div grad

* change mutable_data to alloc

* fix compile bugs

* delete elementwise_sub kernel registry

* fix compile bugs in xpu ci

* fix bugs when run inference ci

* unify register macro

* rename declare macro

* fix infrt error

* rename pten dir to phi

* rename namespace to phi

* rename infrt pten dir to phi

* resolve conflict

* rename pten to phi in cmake

* revert all infrt change

* change needed files

* fix infrt failed

* fix inference failed

* remove reshape and elementwise_add registry

* delete code

* fix bugs when run ci ut

* remove log

* fix bugs when run unit test

* fix bugs when run unit test

* fix bugs when run cinn

* fix bugs when run ci-mac-python3

* fix compile bugs

* fix compile bugs

* fix compile bugs

* fix bugs when run kunlun

* fix bugs when compile

* update code according comment

* move grad get expected pten kernel args

* fix reduce sum error

* fix element_sub_grad failed

* revert kernel judge change

* add standard_suffix_set_and_remove_reshape_with_xshape

* revert reshape change

* polish reduce name

* remove kernel alias name

* fix depreacted error

* fix deprecated failed

* fix mean error

* resolve conflict

* fix windows failed

* update forward argument mapping

* fix compile failed

* fix test failed