* Speed GEO-SGD (#20158)

* delete debug vlog & add rpc function & fix word2vec bug & speed GEO-SGD

* refector geo sgd & communicator

* add a base class for the Communicator
* add AsyncCommunicator Impl for async distributed training

* fix correctness of the communicator

* fix a bug in send thread when sending var context is empty, test=develop

* add lookup_table_prefetch_op and prefetch optimize, test=develop

* remove remote prefetch GPU supported

* word2vec force with CPU, test=develop

* test dist remote lookup table force with CPU, test=develop

* optimize communicator merge sparse gradient test=develop

* revert multithread selected rows merge add test=develop

* follow comment test=develop

Async exe support communicator

* optimize communicator flag

* change flags in init py test=develop