* [IR&PASS] add conv + elementwise_add fuse pattern

* add conv2dAddPattern to pass

* remove the extend_optimizer_with_weight_decay function

* Update __init__.py

* fix bug

* fix bug

* add ir output check in OpTest

* add ir grad check in op test

* fix legacy name converter bug

* add more unittest

* fix

* fix warprnn op bug

* add whit list

* polish code

* polish code

* fix cummin cummax bug

---------
Co-authored-by: Nkangguangli <kangguangli@hotmail.com>

This PR delete middle ir_visitor class and thus we can avoid middle virtual function call and codes look more clean
pcard-72718

* fix index_put bug when index is multi-dim bool tensor

* fix name error

* add ir output check in OpTest

* add ir grad check in op test

* fix legacy name converter bug

* add more unittest

* fix

* fix warprnn op bug

* add whit list

* polish code

* adagrad modify

* recover

* polish code

* review

---------
Co-authored-by: Nkangguangli <kangguangli@hotmail.com>
Co-authored-by: Nphlrain <phliuhongyu@126.com>

* add some basic functions

* add elementwise rule for auto parallel

* add unit test for elementwise rule

* fix the lib name in spmd rule test cmake file

* fix some bugs

* add unit tests for elementwise spmd rule in python

* bug fix

* delete cpp unit test for elementwise spmd rule (use python ut now)

* add cpp unit test for elementwise rule

* use concrete op name in unit test

* fix typo

* fix code style

* delete cpp unit test

* add more details in log

* fix WITH_SHARED_IR option type

* rename WITH_INFERENCE_NVTX to WITH_NVTX and fix compile bug

* update

* remove some pybind interface in cinn to fix compile problem

* modify cmake

* fix cmake

* add log for build cinn whl

* fix ninja for cinn

* fix conflict

* add ir output check in OpTest

* add ir grad check in op test

* fix legacy name converter bug

* add more unittest

* fix

* fix warprnn op bug

* add whit list

* polish code

* polish code

---------
Co-authored-by: Nkangguangli <kangguangli@hotmail.com>

* commit

* del inplace op in memory_optimize_pass.cc

* check code style

* [autograd] add copy-from; test=document_fix

* [autograd] add copy-from; test=document_fix

* fix

* Fix bugs of dropout and dropout_grad. test=kunlun

* Modify the code style of dropout_grad_kernel. test=kunlun

* skip flash attn ut on Hopper

* minor change

* add clip_grad_value_ api

* add test for ClipGradByValue

* typo fix

* refine and modify clip_grad_norm_

* no_grad

* clip_

* remove g=p.grad

* bug: AssertionError: When Variable is used as the condition of if/while , Variable can only contain one element.

* fix prim add fill_any_like bug

* polish code

* add layernorm spmd rule

* add ut

* follow comments

Pcard-72384
paddle with cinn的情况下支持cinn的c++ ut。 统一了cinn和paddle的third_party的c++版本，cinn third party不使用C++17

* optimize expr operator = implementation

* fix codestyle