Cherry-pick #40338 #41741 #41313

【chery-pick #41430】fix bug of random compile failure, due to incorrect compile order of dependencies

* switch autotune

* implement AutoTuneCache

* implement AutoTuneCache class

* add pybind api

* add dygraph test

* support static mode and eager mode and improve unittests

* rename the SwitchAutoTune Class and improve tests

* improve AutoTuneStatus and reduce the cost of tests

* for 1st time interface combine.

* modification with kernel factory

* first auto_tune version.

* first version.

* basic version

* add warm up step.

* a debug version.

* optimize the functionality of class auto_tuner.

* add some quotes for optimized auto_tuner class.

* add some quotes for optimized auto_tuner class.

* add namespace.

* modification according to the advices

* replace fluid header with phi header.

* replace fluid header with phi header.

* add kernel profiler

* add gpu timer tool

* remove warmup

* fix rocm complilation error