* Create stateful OneDNNAXPYHandler object.

This makes it possible to call it multiple times without recreating the
oneDNN primitives every time.

* Prepare SGDOpKernel to reuse its implementation from OneDNN kernel.

* OneDNN SGD kernel.

* Update call to use new OneDNNAXPYHandler object api.

* Setup seed in proper place.

* Enable OneDNN kernel only for single case.

* For dense param and sparse grad.

* Small refactor.

* Enable oneDNN by op attr or by cmd line flag.

* Use int64_t type for number of elements.

* Support dense param and grad from OneDNN kernel.

* Enable SGD OneDNN kernel when use MP BF16 optimizer.

* Force non-copyable/movable OneDNNAXPYHandler.

* Reuse OneDNNAXPYHandler for spare tensors in SUM op.

* Fix SFINAE rules.

* Remove recording event inside AXPY.

* Get rid of internal primitive caching.

* Stop use PP cache mechanims to store mem and primitive obj.
* Handler obj store and reuse needed desc & prim

* Do not derive from MKLDNNHandlerT

* Add oneDNN AXPY handler.

* Add fallback for small tensors.

* Fix ifdefs

* Remove unnecessary namespace prefixes and add missing headers.

* Guard handler_axpy with proper ifdefs.

* Compilation of this function is possible only when Paddle is not build
with CUDA nor HIP.

* Move AXPY handler code to separate files.

* Use oneDNN AXPY handler in SGD op.

* Use axpy handler only when Paddle is built with oneDNN.

* Add test for SUM BF16 with big rows.

* Fix SFINAE rules for elementwise_add_to.

* Add test case for SGD with big rows.

* update

* update
Co-authored-by: NAdam Osewski <adam.osewski@intel.com>