support stride

[XPU][PHI Kernels] bind reduce_max_int64 set_value_bool sin_grad_fp32 cos_grad_fp32 for XPU (#55375)

* bind kernels for xpu

* format code

* format code

* 0d support for set value

* refine set_value

* delete relu6_raw

* fix codestyle

* Update test_mkldnn_matmul_activation_fuse_pass.py

* fix

* Update backward.yaml

* Update ops.yaml

* Update backward.yaml

* Move compare_raw_kernel to legacy

* fix

* Update compare_kernel.cc

* Move compare_raw_kernel to legacy

* Fix bugs of dropout and dropout_grad. test=kunlun

* Modify the code style of dropout_grad_kernel. test=kunlun

* Add XPU plugin to support the customized ops or improve the performance of the fusion ops based on hand-written xpu micro kernels.

* refine README.md

[XPU] Fix the topk, set_value ops that using temporary tensors avoiding the memory overlaps during multi-stream inference (#54851)

* add int_with_ll to conv

* fix bugs when output_size is specified for conv2d_transpose

* add pos_weight in kernel

* fix unittest

* fix xpu

* fix bce unittest, change infermeta order

* delete swish_raw

* fix

* Update activation_kernel.cc

* fix

* remove ops from OpsWithFluidKernelNeedMoveToPhi set

* open static build flag

* OpsWithFluidKernelNeedMoveToPhi

* open new_executor_static_build

* add infermate for cudnn_lstm

* fix

* update

* fix

* update

* update

* update

* fix pow2 decay

* fix pow2 decay

* recover analysis_predictor.cc

* fix pow2 decay

* fix cudnn lstm

* add output register info for svd

* fix pow2_decay_with_linear_warmup_kernel

* recover test lstm cudnn

* recover svg register codes

* fix register info

* fix reduce sum register info

* add output info for adadelta

* add output info for adadelta

* add output info for adamax

* fix complex abs register info

* add register info for cudnn_lstm_grad

* recover

* fix lstm cudnn

* fix

* fix xpu output registe info

* remove std::cout

* add backend

* remove output info in pow2_decay_with_linear_warmup_kernel

* add judgment in TensorShouldBeFakeInitialized

* recover power_

* close new_executor_static_build

* fix set_value_xpu

* add unique kernel for xpu

* add unique kernel for xpu

* update uniittest

* add xpu support for unique with axis

* fix lamb always_adapt

* fix optest

* fix all optests

* move raw kernels to legacy

* Update elementwise_add_kernel.cu

* fix

[XPU][PHI Kernels] bind bitwise_add kernel & add int32/int64 support to scatter_nd_add kernel for xpu (#54066)

* bind new kernels to xpu

* refine code

* fix bugs in unittest

* fix empty bugs for xpu

* fix empty bugs for xpu

* bind xpu op: 3D grid sample

* fix edge cases in xpu op: reshape & slice