* TensorSetConstantXPU support to use xpu::constant when T is float/float16

* add xpu_wait for TensorSetConstantXPU

Remove old schedules.

* fix

* fix

* fix

* fix

* [OpCompat] add fetch and update mish in op_compat.yaml

* add missing outputs

* fix codestyle

* [Paddle-TRT] add assign op

* add code

* fix bug

* refine code

* refine code

* fix bug

* distribute best cfg

* adapt to multi args transmission

* update metric extracting

* fix bugs of prune and reading log

* fix time default value

* remove time record

* adjust the order of searching dim

* fix prune bugs

* fix adding cfg bug

* fix multi nodes bug

* reset status

* remove alarm and set logdir

* deepcopy ctx

* change alarm

* fix restart bug

* add exit

* best no need alarm

* add warmup time

* add feed in op_compat.yaml

* remove input mapping

* add inplace interface

* support inplace

* refine code

* fix bug

* fix bug

* refien code

* add file

* add interface

* refine code

* refine code

* add phi kernel instruction

* refine code

* add test

* delete unuse code

* add test

* add test

* add deps

* delete unused code

* fix bug

* fix bug

* Update CUDNN Frontend API to v0.9.1
- Remove old patches
- Remove workarounds that are no longer needed

* Fix test_switch_autotune

* copy dense_tensor.h to inference lib

* update

* update

* add init value for CudaSwishFunctor

* add new phi kernel fusedBiasActKernel

* Support nvprof for auto parallel

* Fix CI errors

* Fix CI errors

* [prim]support fp16 for instance_norm and instance_norm_grad

* support fp16 and bfp16 dtype for instance_norm prim rules

* fix new ir test

---------
Co-authored-by: Ncxxly <chenxx_id@163.com>