[XPU][PHI Kernels] bind reduce_max_int64 set_value_bool sin_grad_fp32 cos_grad_fp32 for XPU (#55375)

* bind kernels for xpu

* format code

* format code

* 0d support for set value

* refine set_value

* Update op_compat.yaml

* Update op_compat.yaml

* add feed with place op

* remove useless unitest

* udpate mkldnn

* update

* add enable_static

* remove useless test case

* register int and doubel type

* fix bug

* polish dist_tensor details

* add unittest for coverage

* revert uselesss change

* skip test without dist

* delete relu6_raw

* fix codestyle

* Update test_mkldnn_matmul_activation_fuse_pass.py

* fix

* Update backward.yaml

* Update ops.yaml

* Update backward.yaml

* fix mea seg fault develop

* fix bias_grad seg fault

* batch add inpalce api

* fix inplace fn generate

* add test for  new inpalce api

* fix typro

* fix typro

* fix typro

* fix test error

* fix atan2

* remove atan2

* auto genereate inpalce api

* fix inplace generate fn error

* fix windows error

* fix test error

* fix test error

* fix windows ci error

* fix test error

* fix test_error

* fix test error

* fix eigen aliasing error in inplace

* remove elementwise_pow inplace

* fix doc error

* fix test error

* fix new ir concat op bug

* fix bug

* using add_n_with_kernel instead of add_n impl

* fix pd_op yaml bug

* fix bug

* fix hsigmoid_loss

* add test into whitelist

* add cast and repeat_interleave

* fix

* add more data type for all/any.

* remove xpu fix.

* add test unit.

* fix typename name.

* fix output data type.

* TensorSetConstantXPU support to use xpu::constant when T is float/float16

* add xpu_wait for TensorSetConstantXPU

* [OpCompat] add fetch and update mish in op_compat.yaml

* add missing outputs

* fix codestyle

* add feed in op_compat.yaml

* remove input mapping

* Update CUDNN Frontend API to v0.9.1
- Remove old patches
- Remove workarounds that are no longer needed

* Fix test_switch_autotune

* copy dense_tensor.h to inference lib

* update

* update

* add init value for CudaSwishFunctor

* add new phi kernel fusedBiasActKernel

* [prim]support fp16 for instance_norm and instance_norm_grad

* support fp16 and bfp16 dtype for instance_norm prim rules

* fix new ir test

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* add phi operator c_concat and ut

* update create_var use

* update copyright

* new ir support builtin slice op

* fix phi kernel adaptor bug

* Move compare_raw_kernel to legacy

* fix

* Update compare_kernel.cc

* Move compare_raw_kernel to legacy