Fixes https://github.com/behdad/harfbuzz/issues/342

Fixes https://github.com/behdad/harfbuzz/issues/336

Regression from: b424b6c3.

That's where everything is happening these days.

The default tar-v7 is not good enough for us (99 char filename
limit), so I have had bumped to tar-pax.  We got one complaint
that someone's tar couldn't handle tar-pax.  Set to tar-ustar
which is ~13 years earlier than tar-pax and is good enough for us.

This adds to the autotools build system so that the (experimental)
DirectWrite support for HarfBuzz is built (and dist'ed).

This adds a set of NMake Makefiles that can be used to build HarfBuzz, from
the standard basic build building the minimal HarfBuzz DLL (consisting
of OpenType, fallback and Uniscribe support only), to a full fledged build
consisting of GLib and FreeType support, as well as building the utilities,
the test programs in src/ and test/api, and HarfBuzz-ICU and
HarfBuzz-GObject, and up to building the introspection files.  This means a
flexible build mechanism is supported here, so anything that is supported
for a Windows build (code-wise), should all be supported by this build
system.

As in an earlier commit, the source listings are shared with the autotools
builds with the various Makefile.sources in src/, src/hb-ucdn and util/, and
this set of NMake Makefiles will transform these lists into the form they
want.

In the current form, all the test programs in test/api pass, and this has
been checked successfully with 'make -j8 distcheck'.

Fixes https://bugs.freedesktop.org/show_bug.cgi?id=64501