cherry-pick : #46016, #46021, #45974

* [Sparse]Sparse add support gpu (#45974)

* [Sparse]Remove unused code (#46021)

* [Sparse] Add infer meta (#46016)

* normalize yaml file name (#45894)

* Clear extra attributes of activation op in OpMaker (#45772)

* clear extra attr of activation op in opmaker

* fix syntax bug

* fix mkldnn kernel

* fix merge conflict

* fix bug

* [PHI] Normalize yaml op label (#45976)

* normalize yaml op label

* revert op_compat yaml change

* fix prelu and rnn compat problem

* replace api by op

* support assign op backward refuse forward (#45879)

* normize yaml backward op label (#46028)
Co-authored-by: Nzyfncg <zhangyunfei07@baidu.com>
Co-authored-by: NCharles-hit <56987902+Charles-hit@users.noreply.github.com>

* support auto fallback to  cpu kernel for cusom device

* fix some problem of kernel fallback

* move yaml to phi

* fix undef var error

* support complexd selected_rows kernel in yaml

* support configuring optimizer api in yaml

* fix data transform bug

* use yapf to format all python file

* yapf exclude two unittests file for they rely on writing and reading file, and format will break them

* disable diff_py_file because too many diff files cause command following failed

* update code

* change the return type for inplace dygraph api

* change the tuple construct

* change the output format of C++ backward api

* fix merge conflict

* fix sparse api code auto-gen

* fix eager_gen bug

* fix bug of output is null

* fix bug of conv2d_grad_impl

* fix optional grad

* fix bug of eager-gen double_grad

* fix bug

* fix multiply_double_grad bug

* remove node pruning

* rename scalar_array to int_array

* update cmake

* fix conflict

* remove useless log

* support intermediate for saprse api

* close intermediate in yaml

* fix dygraph_api dep for eager

* call sparse api from python

* remove needless deps in unittests

* add gpu marco

* fix other unittests

* fix kernel name error

* fix test_prepare_op

* fix failed dygraph unittests

* fix gpu failed tests

* fix cinn test failed

* fix cinn test failed

* fix dropout tests

* support code auto-gene for sparse backward api

* fix bug of intermediate api and name of return var

* suppport sparse api in yaml

* support auto-gen code of sparse api

* do some refactor

* add unittest test_sparse_conv_api

* add unitest file
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