* [AutoParallel] adapt gradient merge pass (#45915)

* adapt gradient merge

* fix op_role

* fix strategy

* [Auto Parallel] Gradient Fuse Allreduce (#45643)

* bugfix (#45332)

* dist embedding support lookup table v1

* add unitest

* customize wait_comm

* group gradients

* bugfix

* update program

* [Auto Parallel] Improve the APIs (#45776)

* [Auto Parallel] Use c++ dist attr in the completion process

* [Auto Parallel] Add minor changes

* [Auto Parallel] Use c++ dist attr in the completion process

* [Auto Parallel] Add minor changes

* [Auto Parallel] Add the serialization process for dist attrs

* [Auto Parallel] Remove unnecessary comments

* [Auto Parallel] Fix some bugs

* [Auto Parallel] Fix the code style

* [Auto Parallel] Remove unnecessary impls

* [Auto Parallel] Fix the importing error

* [Auto Parallel] Fix the copy from bugs of op dist attr

* [Auto Parallel] Replace the use of constexpr if

* [Auto Parallel] Redesign the shard_tensor, shard_op and ProcessMesh

* [Auto Parallel] Change API of the completion unittest

* [Auto Parallel] Fix the bug when set_attr an int

* [Auto Parallel] Add the unittest for the serialization

* [Auto Parallel] Add some unit tests

* [Auto Paralle] Unify the strategy

* [Auto Parallel] Improve the engine api

* [Auto Parallel] Reset the changes made to the framework

* [Auto Parallel] Change the engine unittest

* [Auto Parallel] Update API of the completion and partitioner

* [Auto Parallel] Update unit tests using engine api

* update shard annotation

* [Auto Parallel] Remove the modifications of other modules

* [Auto Parallel] Add docs for APIs

* add new strategy

* [Auto Parallel] Replace the logger

* [Auto Parallel] Restore the test_program.py

* [Auto Parallel] Change the import rules

* [Auto Parallel] Add the examples for Engine

* [Auto Parallel] Do some minor changes

* [Auto Parallel] Remove yaml dependency

* [Auto Parallel] Fix the unittests

* add valid after train

* bug fix
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* [Auto Parallel] Bugfix allreduce fuse for MP (#46086)

* bugfix

* bugfix

* typos fixed

* update strategy (#46138)
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* adapt lazy init and fix pass

* add unittest

* update comment

* fix amp and sharding

* remove clip_by_norm

* support iterable dataset for auto parallel

* add split_data proto

* fix unittest bug

* fix recompute bug

* update cmake

* dist_matmul trans

* update unittest

* update cmakelist

* bugfix (#45332)

* dist embedding support lookup table v1

* add unitest

* update unitest cmake

* add grad_clip pass

* add unittest

* add notes

* update func

* add dist_attr for new op

* support high order differential with data parallel overlap

* update unitest

* add quant pass

* bugfix

* remove scaling

* support rescale_grad opt

* add unitest

* add clip_grad

* fix comments

* add unittest

* update logger

* update reshard cost and cost estimator

* add unittest

* add dropout cost

* fix import error

* fix reshard code style error

* improve unittest coverage

* prune d2h memcpy for fp16 pass

* add collate_fn

* fix number of inputs

* update reshard for auto search

* fix unittest bug

* update dist tensor

* update reshard output

* fix unittests bug

* merge develop

* bugfix

* remove scaling

* support rescale_grad opt

* [Auto Parallel] Pybind11 ProcessMesh and DeviceMesh

* [Auto Parallel] Fix the unittest problem

* [Auto Parallel] Explicitly add the src file for auto_parallel target

* [Auto Parallel] Add the proto depedency explicitly

* [Auto Parallel] Fix the cmake bug on windows and mac

* [Auto Parallel] Remove the pybind11 header file in process_mesh.h

* add mul dist op cost

* add mul unittest

* [Dy2St]Support generate whole program in ProgramHelper for Engine

* support to(mode)

* fix word typo

* fix unittest

* fixed bug for pass & engine

* fixed bug for benchmark GPT-3

* add tuner & profiler

* add algorithms & config

* update comp cost

* add dist default op cost

* add dist fill constant batch size like op cost

* add elewise op cost

* add fill_constant_batch_size_like op cost unittest

* add unittest and remove fill_constant_batch_size_like grad op cost

* add to cmakelist

* fix unittest bug

* [dy2st]Add ProgramHelper to polish build program logic in autoparallel.Engine

* refine code

* fix unittest

* fix log_dir

* _enable_legacy_dygraph

* avoid sync with cpp in partition op

* delay eval & predict mode

* bugfix for gradient merge pass

* add comm init control by socket

* avoid single card instance failure

* generate default cluster

* add unittest

* update base cost

* update unittest of cost model

* add unittest

* add 'to_static' in engine api

* fix cmakelist

* fix op_role

* fix engine

* update op_role

* fixed bug for pass & engine

* fixed bug for benchmark GPT-3

* [Auto Parallel] Use a fast completion for data parallelism

* remove unuse cuSparse function

* [Auto Parallel] Fix some bugs of the fast dp completion

* [Auto Parallel] Add the cmake statements

* [Auto Parallel] Make the unittest adapt to the new interface

* [Auto Parallel] Modify the timeout of the unittest

* [Auto Parallel] Remove unnecessary comments
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