Enhance error message of checkpoint_notify_op, fake_init_op gen_nccl_id_op and listen_and_serv_op (#24554) (#24844)

test=develop

* refactor dygraph,test=develop

* fix failed unittest,test=develop

* polish code,test=develop

* check windows ci error,test=develop
try to fix windows ci error by np.allclose,test=develop

* polish vlog and profiler, test=develop

* try to fix preceding ops order,test=develop

* test transformer in windows ci, test=develop

* use python c-api to speed up tracer.trace,test=develop

* test=develop, fix docker with paddle nccl problem

* test=develop, add ut for debug string and gradient_accumulator

* test=develop, add tests for layer/gradient_accumulator/prepared_op

* test=develop, fix complie error for test_prepared_op

* test=develop, add more ut for dygraph

* test=develop, create API.spec for dygraph api change

* optimize grad maker; test=develop

* optimize grad maker

* test

* grad make optim; test=develop

* fix unittest bugs; test=develop

* add dygraph grad op maker and split_op

* grad op maker refactor; test=develop

* add dygraph grad maker; test=develop

* fix op deformable_conv_v1_op bug; test=develop

* fix deformable_conv prroi pool bugs;

* fix new op grad op maker bug; test=develop

* fix split by ref bug; test=develop

* fix dygraph auto prune bug; test=develop

* fix test_trace bug; test=develop

* fix fused emb seq pool bug; test=develop

* remove useless code in op_desc file; test=develop

* remove useless code, StrVarBaseNode; test=develop

* fix review issues; test=develop

* fix rank_loss grad maker; test=develop

* remove flag in VarBase; test=develop

* fix distributed_notify_op compile bug ; test=develop

* fix reshape op double grad; test=develop

* fix expand as op; test=develop

* add impertive type_defs.h for demo_train; test=develop

* fix inference lib cmake; test=develop

* fix inference lib; test=develop

* fix infernce_lib; test=develop

* fix inference cmake; test=develop

* fix inference lib; test=develop

* fix inference lib; test=develop

* remove condition dygraph grad maker, modify local name; test=develop

* fix split grad maker bug; test=develop

* fix pyramid_op bug; test=develop

* change travis time out limit; test=develop

* restore travis; test=develop

* change timeout limit; test=develop

* wip

* wip

* refactor no.1 dir structure test=develop

* fix linking test=develop

* fix includes test=develop

* fix build test=develop

* fix build test=develop

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* wip simplify operator framework

* wip

* wip

* done test=develop

* clean test=develop

* fix test=develop

* fix deps test=develop

* fix cpu build test=develop

* fix tensorrt build test=develop

* fix tests test=develop

* fix test=develop

* fix cpu build test=develop

Fix code to support cpplint syntax check

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* wip

* add ref_by_trainer_id op

* ready to test

* fix ref inputs

* refine rpc_op_handle

* fix merge bug

Do not use ctor

* Reduce line of codes.
* We can use virtual function for Maker now.
* The implementation does not care what maker holds, it is easier to
refactor later.

* init

* add some check

* add dist transpile logic

* add insert op for block

* init change get_pserver_program

* optimize code

* fix a bug

* can run now

* start to do table split

* start to process table gradient

* complete pserver part

* can send_vars now

* revert cpplint

* fix a bug

* optimize code

* move dist test to models

* revert the interface of distribute_transpiler.transpile

* fix prefetch_block

* optimize trainspiler code

* add comment to sum_op

* add warning log

* fix comment

* fix test_send_recv

* fix test_send_recv

* fix train with no distributed table

* optimize GetDims

* add prefetch_op

* fix ci

* optimize code

* optimize code

* fix include

Fix sparse update memory error for distributed training

* dynamic send/recv selected rows

* update by comment

* fix by comment