[cherry-pick2.0]Enhance installation error message after separating AVX and NO_AVX compilation #30442 

cherry-pick #30413
1. 30架构对应很早期的显卡，在2.0及之后移除该架构编译
2. 分离avx与core_avx编译，并优化了安装报错信息。

* remove -DSUPPORTS_CUDA_FP16 in cuda.cmake

* comile with cuda9

* add some unittest

* notest;test=coverage

* add unittest for trt plugin swish && split

* update ernie unittest

* fix some error message

* remove repeated judgement of CUDA version in mbEltwiseLayerNormOpConverter

* fix comile errror when CUDA_ARCH_NAME < Pascal"

* fix comile error

* update unittest timeout

* compile with cuda9

* update error msg

* fix code style

* add some comments

* add define IF_CUDA_ARCH_SUPPORT_FP16

* rename IF_CUDA_ARCH_SUPPORT_FP16 to CUDA_ARCH_FP16_SUPPORTED

specify cuda arch when dectected fail

* Fixed compile warning about incorrect compile options,fix paddle_build.bat

* fix paddle_build.bat to more safe

fix bug in CUDA_NVCC_FALS and CMAKE_CUDA_FLAGS

* add -DPADDLE_CUDA_BINVER. test=develop, test=win_gpu

* nvcc will use add_compile_options, avoid using it if you don't want to pass arguments to nvcc. test=develop

* test=develop, test=win_gpu

* support CUDA using cmake built-in way (#24395)

* support CUDA using cmake built-in way. test=develop

* test=develop

* cmake_minimum_required 3.10

* test=develop

This reverts commit 068d3690.

* support CUDA using cmake built-in way. test=develop

* test=develop

* Fix cusolver loader for Windows in dynamic_loader.cc. test=develop

* Fix missing CUSOLVER_ROUTINE_EACH_R1.
test=gpu
test=develop

* Add unsupprot for cusolver on Windows temporarily. test=develop

* Fix GetCusolverDsoHandle error message. test=develop

* add dynamic plugin support.
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* change emb eltwise layernorm to math function
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* add emb eltwise layernorm
test=develop

* can run dynamic shape ernie
test=develop

* fix ci
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* add ut for trt ernie dynamic

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* refine dynamic shape c++ interface.
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* fix comments
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* fix comments
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* add jeston compile support
test=develop

* refine the cmake
test=develop

* make CUDA_ARCH_NAME default Auto

test=develop

* refine warning

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* add support for cuda9 on windows test=develop
* use different git address for cuda9 compatible on windows 

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fix code style