don't support cmake 3.12, 3.13, 3.14 (#25021)

CMakeLists.txt

@@ -27,6 +27,13 @@ include(init)
 # TODO(Shibo Tao): remove find_package(CUDA) completely.
 find_package(CUDA QUIET)
 option(WITH_GPU         "Compile PaddlePaddle with NVIDIA GPU"          ${CUDA_FOUND})
+
+# cmake 3.12, 3.13, 3.14 will append gcc link options to nvcc, and nvcc doesn't recognize them.
+if(WITH_GPU AND (${CMAKE_VERSION} VERSION_GREATER_EQUAL 3.12) AND (${CMAKE_VERSION} VERSION_LESS 3.15))
+    message(FATAL_ERROR "cmake ${CMAKE_VERSION} is not supported when WITH_GPU=ON because of bug https://tinyurl.com/ydbb9m7n. "
+       "You can use cmake 3.16 (recommended), 3.10, 3.11, 3.15 or 3.17. Please refer to the install document: https://cmake.org/install/")
+endif()
+
 if(WITH_GPU AND NOT APPLE)
     enable_language(CUDA)
     message(STATUS "CUDA compiler: ${CMAKE_CUDA_COMPILER}, version: "

cmake/cuda.cmake

@@ -205,7 +205,7 @@ set(CUDA_PROPAGATE_HOST_FLAGS OFF)
 # So, don't set these flags here.
 if (NOT WIN32) # windows msvc2015 support c++11 natively.
     # -std=c++11 -fPIC not recoginize by msvc, -Xcompiler will be added by cmake.
-  set(CMAKE_CUDA_FLAGS "${CMAKE_CUDA_FLAGS} -std=c++11")
+  set(CMAKE_CUDA_STANDARD 11)
 endif(NOT WIN32)
 
 # in cuda9, suppress cuda warning on eigen