new cuda arch compile method;test=document_fix;test=windows_op;test=windows_ci_inference;test=windows_ci (#41259)

* add CUDA_TOOLKIT_ROOT_DIR option in cmake command

* make sure dir in cmake use / rather than \

* test labels

* test=document_fix

* make vcvars64 and cuda_version can be set in xly pipe

* make third_party_path reused by ci and build pipe;test=windows_ci_inference;test=windows_op;test=windows_ci

* Fix test case timeout

* test=document_fix

* test=document_fix

* change some symbol names

* add test

* add phi to opt.cc

* clean code

* up

* update

* up

* up

* Update pten_pass.mlir

* Update convolution_grad_kernel.cc

* update

* restore init_infrt_dialects

* restore

* up

* up

* up
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* add ci

* rm retry tests

* format

* restore retry tests

* update timeout for ipu uts

* add onnxruntime predictor

* Add code comments

* support link paddle2onnx onnxruntime

* support onnxruntime with python

* support onnxruntime with python

* support onnxruntime with windows

* paddle2onnx compile with windows

* supoort windows compile

* supoort windows compile with onnxruntime

* supoort windows compile with paddle2onnx

* supoort mac compile

* compile with mac

* compile with mac

* add code comments

* fix remind word

* code optimization

* add test case

* add test case

* add inference demo_ci test case

* fix compile paddle2onnx with no python

* add inference demo_ci test case

* add inference demo_ci test case

* add inference infer_ut test case

* support c go api and test cases

* add converage test case

* add converage test case

* add capi test case

* add capi test case

* [MLU] add mlu ci script

* Update CMakeLists.txt

* open eager when WITH_PYTHON, test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* add DWITH_PYTHON for gen_fluid_lib, test=develop

* update;test=cpu-py3

* update generate_pd_op_dialect_from_paddle_op_maker.py

* update mlir tensor load interface

* refine

* fix bug

* fix

* refine

* fix

* 3

* fix

* codestyle
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