new cuda arch compile method;test=document_fix;test=windows_op;test=windows_ci_inference;test=windows_ci (#41259)

* add nll_loss yaml

* fix nll loss

* fix nll loss bug

* fix bug

* fix bug

* fix infrt problem
Co-authored-by: Nxiongkun <xiongkun03@baidu.com>

* add/rm ISSUE_TEMPLATE

* rm old template

* "ci;test=document_fix"

fix_reshape: for paddle-trt

* support pinned, test=develop

* support async_write, test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* refine,test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* refine, test=develop

* [ControlFlow] Fix contrib API bug in while_loop

* format code

* change vjp to paddle.grad

* use grad and gradients api

* fix preprocess for x

* fix a bug, val_and_grad should return a Tensor

* detach value and grad to avoid assign error
Co-authored-by: Nlevi131 <limaolin01@baidu.com>

* fix inplace fill_ and zero_ API

* add eager unittest

* change inplace_version checking log

* fix

* support C_ops assign

* open unittest

* fix clone

* [Eager]Enhance eager_trace_op logic to support Optimizer Op

* fix AsDispensable

* fix mac c++ version

* update

* fix apple systems

* add cross_entropy_with_softmax phi kernel

* remove softmax_with_cross_entropy kernel

* add softmax_with_cross_entropy grad kernel

* remove original op kernel

* refine cross entropy impl

* fix pointer error

* revert kernel cu change

* fix xpu failed

* fix cinn failed

* fix npu failed

* add forward sig

* add check_nan_inf for pt kernel

* remove repeat cmake item

* fix unittest error

* add interploate cpu kernel

* fix nullptr bug

* add interpolate gpu kernel

* fix unit test error

* remove raw kernels

* add cuda kernel impl

* add infermeta

* recover accidentally deleted kernels in interpolate op

* fix grad x_grad name error

* remove interpolate_v2_op.h

* rm unused codes

* fix xpu build error

* fix build error

* fix namespace error

* add register header for nup

* fix infermeta error

* modify by review

* add the missing args in test_trt_convert_nearest_interp_v2

* fix bug in activation xpu kp kernel

* delete useless comment

* add notes for quantile UT

* Supoort quantile in static-mode and add UT

* support multi_layer of bilstm,*test=kunlun

* support multi_layer of bilstm, *test=kunlun

* support multi_layer of bilstm, *test=kunlun

* support multi_layer of bilstm, *test=kunlun

* add yaml for ele_max ele_min

* fig

* push

* xxx

* [Refactor] refactored eager_gen.py PR #2

* [DoubleGrad PR #1] Decoupled code generation logics for Dygraph ForwardFunctions and GradNodes

* Fixed minor issue

* Adjusted logics of GenerateNodeCreationCodes and GenerateForwardDefinition

* Fixed issues

* Supported higher-order grad node generation

* [DoubleGrad PR #4] Supported higher-order GradNode generation

* [DoubleGrad #4] Bug Fixes to Double Grad Node Generation

* Fixed yaml typo

* Fixed yaml typo

* fixed minor issues

* Fixed minor issue

* fix cmake. test=develop

* fix. test=develop

* fix dep for graphs_ps_gpu. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* update. test=develop

* back fl

* delete ssl cert

* .

* make warning

* .

* unittest paral degree

* solve unittest

* heter & multi cloud commm ready

* .

* .

* correct py36 import error

* correct py36 import error

* correct py36 import error

* correct py36 import error

* modify api name of ps accessor

* update

* code format

* Fix compilation error for gcc-54

* Remove const for gpuStream_t

* move WaitEvent/RecordEvent into try-catch

* refine supportNpu

* add several yaml

* polish strided slice kernel & add yaml

* reorder yaml

* add several yaml

* revert yaml config change

* resolve conflict

* Update test_strided_slice_op.py

* fix error; test=develop

* update

* close some yaml

* fix backward attrite error; test=develop

* add div test

* polish code; test=develop

* update

* update

* fix bug

* update bitwise code; test=develop

* update

* update

* fix some bug

* update

* revert cmakelist

* fix optional bug;

* fix bug

* fix bug;

* add backward test

* open bn

* update

* update

* revert eager_gen

* polish code

* fix topk error

* update

* update

* fix bug;

* move label smooth, nll loss

* revert topk

* fix topk label smooth bug;

* remove batch_norm

* remove topk

* change flip infer meta

* fix flip bug

* update yaml

* close abs

* fix histogram bug

* fix histogram bug

* add abs

* fix histogram kernel

* remove expand

* back fl

* delete ssl cert

* .

* make warning

* .

* unittest paral degree

* solve unittest

* heter & multi cloud commm ready

* .

* .

* add CUDA_TOOLKIT_ROOT_DIR option in cmake command

* make sure dir in cmake use / rather than \