double grad support for abs 

* add batch norm double grad, test=release/1.8

* update, test=develop

* fix, test=develop

test=develop

* add double grad for expand, test=develop

* add double grad to reduce sum

cherry-pick fix cvm check
test=develop
Co-authored-by: N123malin <malin10@baidu.com>

* fix eigen in push sparse; fix hadoop command
test=develop

* add log in load_combine_op
test=develop

* mod cvm test=develop

* mod code format test=develop

* fix dataset py3 (#25012)

* fix dataset py3 error
* test=develop

* fix logger (#24682)

* fix logger of FetchHandler，which may print log twice
* test=develop

* add timeout and http store in communication (#23436)

* add timeout and http store in communication, add revert and confirm in fleet
* test=develop

* modify datanorm op test=develop (#23030)
Co-authored-by: Nxujiaqi01 <173596896@qq.com>
Co-authored-by: Nyaoxuefeng <yaoxuefeng@baidu.com>

* fix cpuid.h not found

* fix-jetson-compile-pyramid_hash

* add more info to version.txt, test=develop (#24551)

* solve conflict

* fix crash when trt not found in python; update unittest model path

Fix the condition of concat dimension judgment.

* ignore warnings of external libraries, test=develop (#24193)

* fix repeat definitions in liengine.cc, test=develop (#25020)

* remove paddle_use_kernel and paddle_use_op. test=develop (#25189)

* fix compile for lite subgraph. test=develop (#25285)

* [CI] [Lite-Subgraph] CI add lite subgraph check. (#25346)

* supports xpu runtime, test=develop (#25554)

* fix cmake of lite, test=develop (#25680)

* change commit files, test=release/1.8
Co-authored-by: NWilber <jiweibo@baidu.com>

* fix softmax_with_cross_entropy cuda kernel overflow bug, test=develop

* replace old macro & for condition, test=develop

* polish details, test=develop

* add scale_x_y for yolo_box, test=develop

* add scale_x_y for yolo_box, test=develop

* refine eps in iou_similarity, test=develop

* fix softmax with cross entropy out of bound; test=develop (#25549)

* fix index error; test=develop

* fix concat shape error
test=develop

* test=release/1.8, cherry fix fluid.embedding

test=release/1.8

* fix bug of prelu when rank not equal 4, test=develop

* fix prelu inference, test=develop

* fix api, test=develop

* fix shape when mode is chennel, test=develop

* remove debug code, test=develop

* add unittest, test=develop

* fix beam_search infershape, test=develop

* fix beam search op unittest, test=develop

PR types: Bug fixes
PR changes:Ops
Describe:
Fix the broadcast bug in elementwise ops, when elementwise ops do not have fast gradient calculate way，use the default way to calculate.

Enhance error message of checkpoint_notify_op, fake_init_op gen_nccl_id_op and listen_and_serv_op (#24554) (#24844)

test=develop

* cherry-pick #24762

* remove pow in speed up in dequantize_log test=develop

* remove pow in speed up in dequantize_log test=develop

* fix unittest test=develop

API/OP（sequence_first_step，sequence_last_step，sequence_mask，beam_search，beam_search_decode） error message enhancement ,test=release/1.8 (#24668)

* API(dynamic_gru, chunk_eval, BeamSearchDecoder) error message enhancement (#24513)

* dynamic_gru err_msg enhancement, test=develop

* chunk_eval err_msg enhancement and fix crf_decoding output type, test=develop

* BeamSearchDecoder err msg enhancement, test=develop

* API/OP(sequence_expand_as) error message enhancement (#23712) 
Co-authored-by: NGuo Sheng <whucsgs@163.com>