[cherry-pick] fix the bug of conv_transpose: compitable with AnyLayout setting, test=release/1.6 #(20897) (#20918)

* fix depthwise conv gpu kernel bug, test=develop
* add more depthwise conv test, test=develop

* mem opt

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* test=develop

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* refine code  test=develop

* refine code  test=develop

* refine code  test=develop

* refine code  test=develop

* refine with cub test=develop

* fix mkldnn test && remove comments && test=develop

* polish code && test=develop

* add only_forward test && test=develop

* optimize depthwise conv by register memory
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* refine reduce by cub
* optimize KernelDepthwiseConvFilterGrad
* optimize depthwise conv and reduce mean and reduce sum
* fix bug: dilation
* cuda arch and cuda 8 compatible

* "re-commit "

* "picked up"

* "fix ci"

* "fix pdb hang up issue in cuda 9"

* Fix more CPPLint issues

* Fix more CPPLint issues

* Fix more CPPLint issues

* Fix CPPLint issues in operators/math and operators/reader