cherry-pick 32784

[Inference Tensorrt] Add attr for trt engine and handle the input seq problem for ernie var len. (#33575) (#33622)

修复Windows CI的一些突发新增的不稳定现象：

    清理服务器后台未正常退出的进程
    支持外部手动修改cache缓存目录

* fix gather op and add logsumexp op on kunlun

* update xpu depence

* update tests and fix elementwise_add

* Add raw program meta optimizer (#32597)

* add raw program, test=develop

* add precision unitest for executor all reduce (#33339)

* fix dp (#33297)
Co-authored-by: NYuang Liu <liuyuang@baidu.com>
Co-authored-by: N李季 <2042519524@qq.com>

* [oneDNN] First fix to #33021  (#33174)

* - First fix to #33021

* [oneDNN] Second fix to #33021 (#33471)

* use older download_data function
Co-authored-by: NJacek Czaja <jacek.czaja@intel.com>

* 1, remove layernorm dynamic fp16; 2, let reshape out in dynamic shape (#33535)

* add win_capi_tar in paddle_build.bat

* tar capi lib for publish

* add in gen_fluid_lib func

* Fix gather infer shape using axis (#33413)

* fix gather shape bug

* fix None

* fix topo

* Fix hang of hybrid parallel in new_group  (#33141)

* fix hang of hybrid parallel

* fix new_group for hang problem

* fix hang

修复pylayer 返回to_tensor时触发段错误的bug。
原因：

如果在Python端修改了stop_gradient属性，c++ 端InnerSetOverridedStopGradient 无法修改stop_gradient属性，在c++端调用SetOverridedStopGradient修改stop_gradient属性。
to_tensor产生的tensor的grad var的DataType为默认值（-1），在backward的过程中grad var的DataType不能为默认值（-1），因此在调用ForwardDataType设置grad var的DataType。

原始PR：#33303

* Eliminate numerical differences of LayerNorm; fix LayerNorm Nan Bug while large data input

* fix bug while large shape of data input

* add unit8 for concat (#32850)

* add bool type for tril api (#33402)

Support diff dataset tensor place in single process dataloader

cherry-pick of #33470

使用op benchmark时发现，当输入数据量小于某个值时，python 端 log_softmax 接口的输入值经过计算过后 会被改变为nan。输出正常。

cherry-pick自 #32937

* fix conv2d_transpose trt bugs (#33242)

* fix jetson arch when compiling with single arch (#33269)

* Fix two english api documents, transpose and strided_slice

* OP:strided_slice_op supports bool type inputs

* fix compare op in for in the cuda device

* fix the paddle compare op for the broadcast

* fix precision of mp

* fix bug of seed

* fix dp

* print group

* BugFix with ParseInputDataType from LodTensorArray

* BugFix with ParseInputDataType from LodTensorArray

Change Paddle CI-Cverage Python3.8 Cherry-pick 32515

cherry-pick of #32972

* cherrypick for #32640 :add profile and fix dataset hang in heterps;test=develop

* cherrypick for #32640 :add profile and fix dataset hang in heterps;test=develop

* cherrypick for #32640 :add profile and fix dataset hang in heterps;test=develop

fix error log for reducer

fix doc

fix bug of utest

fix spawn

fix converage

* implement MHA order same as training

* fix fp16 compile issue on old architecture
Co-authored-by: Nzlsh80826 <rewang@nvidia.com>

* fix compile error on jetson platform

* remove unused head file

* rm decode_jpeg op on jetson platform