* append optimize op in the grad block of current block if current block is in control flow. test=develop

* add conditional grad op when optimizer used in control flow. test=develop

* add comment and modify typo. test=develop

* fix append_backward to support control flow. test=develop

* add test. test=develop

* fix copy_var_to_parent_block and conditional_block_grad. test=develop

* fix bug: revert to append conditional_block_grad vars to sub grad block. test=develop

* fix bug: revert to assign var to parent block even if var already is in parent block

* fix bug: consider outputs is empty. test=develop

* move _rename_grad_ out. test=develop

* modify code according to reviews from Huihuang. test=develop

* modify code according to reviews from Jinle. test=develop