* update (#41636)

* fix bug for eager mode distributed training (#41841)
Co-authored-by: Nlilong12 <lilong12@baidu.com>

* add processgroup_nccl

* add tcp_socket and tcp_store

[fleet_executor] Implementation of the message bus, the carrier and part of the interceptor (#37049)

* Modify H2D and D2H as kQueue::Sync

* fix interface error

* format code

* format interface

* polish interface

* Remove std::memory_order

* modify into SpinLock

* remove fetch_context_pool_

* fix comment

* modify into WorkQueueGroup

* refine code

* fix pointer

* fix paddle_enforce

* split into AsyncWorkQueue

* polish code

* specify std::memory_relax

* fix atomic fetch_sub

* fix num_thread

* use iwyu clean include second time, test=develop

* use iwyu clean include, test=develop, test=win

* compilation error, test=develop

* fix compilation error2, test=develop

* fix compilation error3, test=develop

* fix compilation error4, test=develop

* fix compilation error5, test=develop

* fix compilation error6, test=develop

* fix compilation error7, test=develop

* fix compilation error8, test=develop

* fix compilation error8, test=develop

* fix compilation error10, test=develop

* fix compilation error11, test=develop

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This can cause a lot of problem:
1. Wrong operator implementation, Op can get a wrong type without failure.
2. Anytype can be Get without defined in VarType.

Also fix wrong STEP_SCOPE usage.

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* "fix decode bug"

* "follow commnet"

* "fix error"

* "fix hook bug"

* fix based comment

* fix copyright

* fix based on comment