Bug Fix: Paddle-TRT cannot handle adaptive pooling in pool2d op converter and "num" attribute in split op converter (#20733)

* fix pool2d trt converter, test=develop

* add fix for split op converter, test=develop

* fix pool2d pool3d:
1. support asymmetric padding;
2. support padding algorithm:"SAME" and "VALID";
3. support channel_last: data_format NHWC and NDHWC;
4. support inferring shape when input with negative dims in compile time;
5. change doc of python API and c++;
6. fix bug in cuda kernel when Attr(adaptive) is true.

test=develop,test=document_preview

* fix 'tensors' to 'Tensors'. test=develop,test=document_preview

* add test for converage ValueError.test=develop,test=document_preview

* resolve conflict in test_pool2d. test=develop

* "re-commit "

* "picked up"

* "fix ci"

* "fix pdb hang up issue in cuda 9"

There are mainly following fixes:

- take `DeviceContext` as the template parameter of math functors and OpKernel instead of `Place`
- remove `eigen_device` interface in base class  `DeviceContext`
- remove `GetEigenDevice` interface in `ExecutionContext` and base class `DeviceContext`
- remove unused `platform::EigenDeviceConverter`
- rename `REGISTER_OP_GPU_KERNEL` to `REGISTER_OP_CUDA_KERNEL`
- rename `USE_GPU_ONLY_OP` to `USE_CUDA_ONLY_OP`