* [Paddle-TRT] Stack op plugin (#25605)

* add stack_op to CMakeLists

* add dim=3 support for scale op

* add trt stack op, test=develop

* remove debug message

* add stack plugin serialize

* remove slice, scale op, will add later

* enhence error message

* revise trt ernie test to conver the stack op CI testi, test=develop

* add stack op serialization

* fix test shape after adding stack op

* remove slice op, will add after implementing serialization

* roll back to min_graph=5 to avoid using slice op

* fix scale op output layer

* implement stack op createPlugin

* use workspace and move the defination to .cu

* move stack plugin creator definition to .cu, test=develop

* sync ut with develop
Co-authored-by: Nzlsh80826 <zlsh80826@gmail.com>

* Chery_pick:[Eernie TRT]: add slice op and add emb eltwise layernorm fp16 support (#23723)

* refine ernie trt dynamic shape support
1. add slice op converter
2. add emb eltwise layernorm fp16 support
test=develop

* fix dynamic shape test ut
test=develop

* fix comments.
test=develop

* fix comments
test=develop

* cherry-pick [BUG]: Head number can only be > 1 on multihead op (#23974)

* support the head number == 1
test=develop

* fix slice op error.
test=develop

* cherry-pick :disable trt test, test=develop (#23984)

test=release/2.0-beta

* add dynamic plugin support.
test=develop

* change emb eltwise layernorm to math function
test=develop

* add emb eltwise layernorm
test=develop

* can run dynamic shape ernie
test=develop

* fix ci
test=develop

* add ut for trt ernie dynamic

test=develop

* refine dynamic shape c++ interface.
test=develop

* fix comments
test=develop

* fix comments
test=develop