* [Paddle-TRT] Stack op plugin (#25605)

* add stack_op to CMakeLists

* add dim=3 support for scale op

* add trt stack op, test=develop

* remove debug message

* add stack plugin serialize

* remove slice, scale op, will add later

* enhence error message

* revise trt ernie test to conver the stack op CI testi, test=develop

* add stack op serialization

* fix test shape after adding stack op

* remove slice op, will add after implementing serialization

* roll back to min_graph=5 to avoid using slice op

* fix scale op output layer

* implement stack op createPlugin

* use workspace and move the defination to .cu

* move stack plugin creator definition to .cu, test=develop

* sync ut with develop
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