[DoubleGrad PR #2] Adjusted logics of GenerateNodeCreationCodes and GenerateForwardDefinition (#41016)

* [Refactor] refactored eager_gen.py PR #2

* [DoubleGrad PR #1] Decoupled code generation logics for Dygraph ForwardFunctions and GradNodes

* Fixed minor issue

* Adjusted logics of GenerateNodeCreationCodes and GenerateForwardDefinition

* Fixed issues

* Fixed minor issue

* move momentum, rmsprop to phi; test=develop

* update

* update

* update

* update

* udpate; test=develop

* fix xpu npu bugs; test=develop

* fix npu bug; test=develop

* fix windows compile error; test=develop

* fix windows compile error; test=develop

* polish code; test=develop

* fix conflict; test=develop

* add meshgrid;

* update

* polish code

* polish code;

* fix bug

* format; remove useless code

* fix npu bug

* fix bug

* update

* add forward case

* update

* update; test=develop

* add some grad kernel; test=develop

* move gpu kernel; test=develop

* update

* update;

* update test;

* fix selected rows bug;

* add mix vector include ;

* add mixed vector depen; test=develop

* add logit grad signature;

* polish code

* fix bug;

* add namespace for abs

* revert code

* not move softsign

* revmove duplate register;

* fix softsign bug

* polish code

* format

* format

* fix bug

* remove cmake dep

* add square sqrt selected rows support

* update

* remove clip norm

* add standalone executor sqrt dep

* standalone exec denp sqrt

* remove sqrt op in cmkaelist

* open some case

* fix dependency

* reduce warnings

* trainer and worker

* delete commonsparsetable from gpups

* delete vlog

* codestyle

* delete communicator from gpups

*  add FP16 Pass 

* Support the auto completion of while_op

*  acc aligned

* no

* fix bugs

* fix doc according to review

* fix api doc format

* fix api doc according to review

* fix bug and add unit test

* fix record event bug

[DoubleGrad PR #1] Decoupled code generation logics for Dygraph ForwardFunctions and GradNodes (#40937)

* [Refactor] refactored eager_gen.py PR #2

* [DoubleGrad PR #1] Decoupled code generation logics for Dygraph ForwardFunctions and GradNodes

* Fixed minor issue

* remove in_dtype, out_dtype in redcue grad

* set the dtype and layout in noneedbufferInputs func

* So Parser

* add macro

* add macro

* slotrecord

* add macro

* code format

* add fused_seqpool_cvm op;test=develop

* fix assign kernel bug

* fix xpu kernel select error

* add cudn pinned place

* fix copy error

* fix infrt error

* moving OP

* move forward

* move grad and infershape

* code format

* format code

* fix code

* fix code

* fix CMakerLists.txt

* fix comments

* Refine CMakeLists for rocm ci

* [Eager] Support SelectedRows in eager mode

* Remove unnecessary codes

* Adapt new dygraph flag

* move assign value op kernel

* remove original op

* fix failed unittests

* remove infershape

* perfect reshape kernel

* fix bugs of sig

* add unittest for reshape_sig

* fix bugs when run converage

* Refine test_lac.py for eager mode

* refine code

* Fix test_program_translator for eager

* add enum from nvinfer namespace to trt lower pattern

* update

* fit for mkldnn and inplace op

* fix compile

* refine ut

* register op version

* fix inplace op

* fix transfer_layout

* support check data type and mutable_data with compiled infos in paddle with cinn

* update cinn_instruction_run_op_test with multi data type

* move slice to pten

* merge develop; test=develop

* fix slice bug;

* update

* update

* fix error

* update

* fix bug

* polish code

* polish code

* polish code

* try to fix windows bug

* add gpu compile flag;

* try to fix

* remov template;

* polish code;

* fix npu bug;

* fix npu bug

* fix npu bug; test=develop

* fix slice bug;

* remove no need dep

* Make StreamSafeCUDAAllocator compatible with NaiveBestFit strategy

* Set FLAGS_use_stream_safe_cuda_allocator to false

* Update

* Remove unnecessary code

* Fix CI errors

* Add UT

* fix inplace bug in final_state eager_gen

* fix python_c_gen

* fix amp with optiontional api bug

* refine optional code for amp

* add string tensor and case convert kernels

* Add strings empty kernel; Reorganize the structure of case convert kernel

* Add string infermeta

* Update mutable_data of string tensor

* rename kernel name

* add string copy tmp

* Fix strings copy device bug

* add utf8 gpu converter

* add string tensor c++ api

* Remove mutable_data of string tensor

* update string tensor interface

* remove charcases_flag.h

* remove some fluid headers

* Add make_ddim

* __HIPCC__ -> PADDLE_WITH_HIP

* remove fluid headers

* fix cpu compile

* remove std::hash

* Fix cudaMalloc

* Remove strings/impl directory

* Fix infrt/get_phi_kernel_info.py;Add custom_kernels deps

* Add empty kernel test

* Remove some comments

* Modify lower/upper api encoding type: string->bool

* STRING->PSTRING; Add CreateInferLikeMeta

* Add code gen for C++ String API

* remove strings_api_utils.h

* Add ignore file (strings_api.h, strings_api.cc)

* update strings gen script

* change args order of case convert kernels

* Add comments for pstring, StringTensor

* cpstring_internal.h -> cpstring_impl.h

* Update accordding to comments:

1. Remove fluid headers
2. paddle::platform::errors -> phi::errors
3. Use 'place.GetType() == phi::AllocationType::GPU' instead of 'paddle::platform::is_cpu_space()'
4. Use camel code style

* Remove all singletons in strings kernels

* fix rocm compile

* Fix py3 compile

* Fix c++ coverage

* 1. Add pstring proto type
2. Add StringTensor debug info
3. Rename case_convert_kernel to strings_lower_upper
4. Remove serialize derialize strings kernel

* DataLayout::PSTRING -> DataLayout::PSTRING_UNION

* Register pstring data type

* Fix strings api gen

* Fix dense tensor register pstring dtype

* Fix error messages

* remove line

* add pstring unittest

* remove test string api unitest

* remove empty line

* Remove some headers to decrease the size of executable file

* add amp for final status

* solve compile error