[Pten]Refactor elementwise_add grad / double grad / triple grad Kernel and move them to pten (#39048)

* refactor elementwise add grad

* fix compile bugs

* fix unit test bugs

* fix file conflicts

* fix bugs when buildPtenContext

* first commit

* fix wrong filename

* fix the wrong spell name

* fix gpu config warper

* modify according to pr advices

* fix GpuLauchConfig1D api bugs

* change the config for dropout grad

* fix bugs

* modification according to pr advices

* modification according to pr advices

* fix the wrong filename

* first commit

* first commit

* remove rest useless headers

* for ci approval

* Add the transformop parameter in TensorReduceFunctorImpl

* elementwise_add kernel refactor

* fix compile bugs in elementwise_add refactor

* fix compile bugs when run in npu/xpu

* fix bugs when run unit test

* fix bugs when run ci-windows

* modify code as recommended

* code format adjust

* fix bugs when run ci

* fix compile bug when run in ci-windwos

* Support elementwise_add triple grad Kernel

* Change code-format to follow CI std

Implement FunctionTraits to support two kinds of elementwise functor and remove some old codes for broadcast. (#35688)

Revert "Implement FunctionTraits to support two kinds of elementwise functor and remove some old codes for broadcast. (#35487)" (#35686)

Implement FunctionTraits to support two kinds of elementwise functor and remove some old codes for broadcast. (#35487)

* modify complex template for elementwise ops

* modify mul, div grad struct

* add complex template for CudaShuffleDownSync CudaShuffleXorSync funcs and fix the bug when delete cuda<9000

* fix shuffle func args bug

* fix shuffle func args bug

* fix shuffle func args bug

This reverts commit befd6d53.

* improve performance of elementwise_sum_grad

* add complex64 and complex128 type; add +-*/@ and slice opreator for complex types

* add test cases for complex elementwise, matmul and getitem unittest

* add test cases for complex types

* add test cases for complex matmul unittest

* support use add instead of sum to do gradient accumulation

* add inplace addto pass

* add grad_add op and inplace addto pass

* remove debug code

* code refine

* fix bug when sereral sum ops inserts at same op_idx

* fix Flags type

* add addto attribute for conv3d

* fix ut

* code clean

* fix type

Improve elementwise operators performance in same dimensions

* update elementwise double grad to save gpu memory, test=develop

* update elementwise_mul/div_grad_grad to save memory, test=develop

* remove eval function in eigen statement to save memory, test=develop

* add unittest for elementwise_div_grad_grad without dout, test=develop

* add unittest for elementwise_add_grad_grad without ddx, test=develop

* add float16 cuda kernel for elementwise double grad op, test=develop

* add elementwise_add_grad_grad op. test=develop

* use defined GradMaker. test=develop

* Optimize the elementwise op with CUDA kernels.
test=develop

* Support setting of attr in op config file.
test=develop

* Add the support the setting dtype and initializer in config.
test=develop

* Save workspace.

* Add initializer "zeros".
test=develop

* Fix compiling error.

* Support the use of existed file to initailize tensor in op_tester.

* Use eigen to optimize the elementwise_add/mul for the case that x and y have the same dims.
test=develop

The macro should be defined by compiler rather than by source.

test=develop

* wip simplify operator framework

* wip

* wip

* done test=develop

* clean test=develop

* fix test=develop

* fix deps test=develop

* fix cpu build test=develop

* fix tensorrt build test=develop

* fix tests test=develop

* fix test=develop

* fix cpu build test=develop

* add fp16 backward support
test=develop

* add sum_op fp16 test

* disable test_dist_save_load
test=develop

* add check_grad for sum

* add unit test for softmax_grad fp16
test=develop

* add scale_op unit test

* add mul_grad_op unit test for fp16

* add cross_entropy_grad and eman_grad unit test for fp16
test=develop

* fix cross_entropy unit test

* add pool2d fp16 unit test

* refine conv2d fp16 unit test
test=develop

* refine activation unit test
test=develop

* fix ci
test=develop

* follow zhihong's comment, copy from https://github.com/PaddlePaddle/Paddle/pull/12796
test=develop

This reverts commit bf3c3496.

* "cherry picked operators changes"

* "remove duplicated code"

* "add constant setter"

* "add get expected kernel"

* "fix ci"

* "add fill constant"